Hi!
I just had the weirdest date I have ever had.
I will first tell the pickup:
I was really focussed and my comfort zone was expanded that evening. It was the fourth girl I approached. I opened her directly, she seemed nervous. A minute later in the conversation I asked: "what is your favorite color", she answered "i don't know waaah I didn't prepare this, sorry". After a while I number closed her and she seemed somewhat surprised that I wanted her number.
SMS-game: She really seemed interested, she even texted she was excited and 'smileys' everywhere etc. I texted: "lets get a drink in the centre of the city", she answered: "okey
you choose what restaurant xxx"
The Meeting:
She wasn't quite as good-looking as I thought she was. During the conversation, she didn't look me in the eyes, kept looking at the floor next to the table, wasn't very responsive. I teased her a bit, and touched her a bit, but her 'state' didn't change. Then something weird happened; she started to ask me questions and really seemed to look for a reason to 'reject' me or something. She said: "oh you aren't a fan of rock music are you, because that would really be a problem", "oh you don't like that show do you, because I really hate that". Wat was weird was, that she seemed to change her own opinion on some things if I disagreed with her. Later she asked; are you right-wing or left-wing (politics). I told her I voted for a certain right wing politician.. Then she suddenly went into a debate-modus or something; "How can you vote for that man!". She started to really speak in an attacking way about the politician. After talking about it for a while (I didn't change my opinion on things ofcourse) I said: "If you really dislike it that much, then there is the door". Then a silence occured,,, "I'm just trying to understand why you voted for that guy", she said.
After that, we went outside for a little walk trough the city. Again, she was like before and didn't make eye contact. We talked a bit, she started to talk about the politician again a few times, but everytime I changed the subject. I tried to loosen her up a little bit again but nothing changed the way she was being. Then I was like, whatever maybe I can get at least a ONS and some 'reference experience' out of it, and I tried to kiss her, she rejected my attempt and said: "I don't want a wild night".
My conclusion: The girl was insecure and couln't believe I wanted her, therefore she started looking for reasons to not like me and 'reject' me, based on opinions about music, food, politics etc.
Is this conclusion right or am I just being rediculously delusional.
What do you guys think about this?
I just had the weirdest date I have ever had.
I will first tell the pickup:
I was really focussed and my comfort zone was expanded that evening. It was the fourth girl I approached. I opened her directly, she seemed nervous. A minute later in the conversation I asked: "what is your favorite color", she answered "i don't know waaah I didn't prepare this, sorry". After a while I number closed her and she seemed somewhat surprised that I wanted her number.
SMS-game: She really seemed interested, she even texted she was excited and 'smileys' everywhere etc. I texted: "lets get a drink in the centre of the city", she answered: "okey
you choose what restaurant xxx"The Meeting:
She wasn't quite as good-looking as I thought she was. During the conversation, she didn't look me in the eyes, kept looking at the floor next to the table, wasn't very responsive. I teased her a bit, and touched her a bit, but her 'state' didn't change. Then something weird happened; she started to ask me questions and really seemed to look for a reason to 'reject' me or something. She said: "oh you aren't a fan of rock music are you, because that would really be a problem", "oh you don't like that show do you, because I really hate that". Wat was weird was, that she seemed to change her own opinion on some things if I disagreed with her. Later she asked; are you right-wing or left-wing (politics). I told her I voted for a certain right wing politician.. Then she suddenly went into a debate-modus or something; "How can you vote for that man!". She started to really speak in an attacking way about the politician. After talking about it for a while (I didn't change my opinion on things ofcourse) I said: "If you really dislike it that much, then there is the door". Then a silence occured,,, "I'm just trying to understand why you voted for that guy", she said.
After that, we went outside for a little walk trough the city. Again, she was like before and didn't make eye contact. We talked a bit, she started to talk about the politician again a few times, but everytime I changed the subject. I tried to loosen her up a little bit again but nothing changed the way she was being. Then I was like, whatever maybe I can get at least a ONS and some 'reference experience' out of it, and I tried to kiss her, she rejected my attempt and said: "I don't want a wild night".
My conclusion: The girl was insecure and couln't believe I wanted her, therefore she started looking for reasons to not like me and 'reject' me, based on opinions about music, food, politics etc.
Is this conclusion right or am I just being rediculously delusional.
What do you guys think about this?