"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Weighted situps

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Hey guys

Well me and my roommate are having a competition to see who has better abs before the end of the school year. My plan is to diet and workout, but I want to really build some muscles on my abs. I think that doing weighted sit-ups an an incline bench would be better then doing a whole bunch of crunches or curls. Opinions?

Any other advice on ways to get better abs would be appreciated. Thanks guys.

-Vincent
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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try weighted crunches, i think the incline wouldnt help too much
 

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No. Incline is definitely better. I've been "feeling it" more with the incline. It's a little harder to do oblique crunches on the incline, but i do weighted crunches on an incline. Seriously it's better. don't go back all the way tho. Go back so you're like floating where you would be WITHOUT an incline. Then go back up. do all this slowly.
 

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why are you talking about incline.....decline crunches are the best!
 

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Originally posted by Double
why are you talking about incline.....decline crunches are the best!
yeah that's what we mean. Decline. lol good poitn though. who the hell does incline crunches. That's just like gettin outta a sofa repeatedly. But whatI was talkin about was DECLINE crunches/situps. My post wouldn't make sense if I meant incline.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Try leg raises attached to a cable machine 6-10 reps, increase weight when you hit 10. I've been doing them for a while and nowadays I can pretty much do how many ordinary leg raises as I please. I never get a burning from crunches.
 

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Originally posted by Lifeforce
Try leg raises attached to a cable machine 6-10 reps, increase weight when you hit 10. I've been doing them for a while and nowadays I can pretty much do how many ordinary leg raises as I please. I never get a burning from crunches.
Hey Lifeforce are those the ones where you sit there and lift your calves up so they're like at a 90 degree angle with your body? Or is this the one where you lie down?
 

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Buy Pavel's abs ebook, and if you are tight or just hate Ruskies, download it from a P2P program.

Do that programme for a few weeks and women will look at you and go 'Core' :D
 

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Update:

Ok, So last thursday I did some weighted situps (25lbs) then the next 2 days my abs hurt like hell, any movement would hurt f*cking bad. Well I rested a couple days, and i feel fine now and when I went today and tried to do them again, as soon as I got on the decline I felt the pain again, but only right above my groine in my lower abs. I was able to do one set but on the second set the pain was too much and i couldn't even get up.

Any advice?
 

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1.) Allow another day or so for rest
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2.) Decrease the decline
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3.) Lower the weight
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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