"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Read more...

Weighted Pistols - last resort

yungahdubz

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jan 17, 2007
Messages
330
Reaction score
2
Location
UK
I've tried variations of squats and tried mixing the squat section of different training programs with the 5x5.

I've tried: back squats without a squat rack, but got to a weight where i couldn't power clean it anymore.
I've tried: 1x20 back squats from squats and milk with back squats, got to a weight where i couldn't power clean it anymore.
I've tried: 5x5 with hack squats, got to a weight where i found it easy but couldn't add on anymore weight due to not having heavy enough plates, and no money to buy new ones.
I've tried: Steinborn Lift many times, cant hack it.

Basically I moved house, had to get rid of squat rack - no space , no money for gym.

Now the only thing i can think of are weighted pistols. One legged squats must be hard, and it will be a while till i can add weight. I'll start with a fairly high box, then get lower ones as my strength prgresses. Once i can add weight i could wear a rucksack and fill it up with plates to make it more challenging. This should be pretty hard shouldnt it?

If i could do this in place of back squats. should i continue doing it with 5x5?

Also, will doing pistols increase my running speed, or just give me more power?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

jahidi

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 14, 2008
Messages
218
Reaction score
0
I can't answer your question but just wanted to say, some places like 24 Hour Fitness offer memberships for around $30 a month with little or no initiation fee. I don't know how bad your money situation is but if you have a few dollars to spare you should check the membership costs of gyms in your area, you might be surprised.
 

MrS

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 2, 2005
Messages
1,329
Reaction score
7
Do pistols onto a low, low box/step, whatever.
Do them onto that like box squats!
Pistols are great.
 

MrS

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 2, 2005
Messages
1,329
Reaction score
7
You hold onto a dumbell.
 

yungahdubz

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jan 17, 2007
Messages
330
Reaction score
2
Location
UK
Cheers for the advice lads.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Top