"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I started working out two months ago, after I have previously been on and off for several years. But this time I started eating properly: no junk food, no sodas, and so on. For the past month I stared calculating my daily caloric intake. I has 83 kilograms and I have 1.8 meters. On several sites said that my daily caloric need was about 3000 calories, and that my body consumes about 2100 calories on its own.

I decreased the calories pretty drastic: about 1400-1500 per day. Sometimes more, but never to 1800. I have lost 10 kilograms in the past month. It is clearly that I have lost fat but I am afraid that I have also lost muscle. I still have some fat on my belly, but also on my chest and that annoys me. What do you think I should do now in order to get read of the extra fat, but without losing more weight? Thanks.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Losing 10kg in a month is far from healthy and you definitely lose muscle there. But what did you expect when eating 1500 calories a day!?

Increase your calories in the form of protein and fat, until you are losing about a lb a week and your strength levels in the gym are increasing.

Eating few calories doesn't make weight loss faster, it just leads to muscle loss and then metabolic/thyroid/hormone problems as you're not getting in enough food to function properly.
 

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The only sure fire way is to calorie count everything or stick
to a calorie counted diet. Walking for an hour a day would
be great exercise. Make sure you have a balanced diet,
plenty of fruit and veg and take multi vitamins if you think
you need them. They really helped me !
:cheer:
 

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Besides working out I also do HIIT and swimming. HIIT 2 days, swimming 2 days. I will increase my caloric intake, I just hope I will lose this damn fat eventually. I also eat lots of vegetables and fruits, and vitamins.
 

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So you eat less than 1800 calories a day, work out AND do HIIT? no wonder you're wasting away dude.

Aka said:
I also eat lots of vegetables and fruits, and vitamins.
what do you eat exactly along with the fruit and vegetables?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Chicken & turkey breast, and tuna. In the morning, prior to the workout I usually eat oat with milk and banana, then after the workout I try to incorporate carbs with protein. It was my mistake, I have lost 10 kilograms but I still have that belly and it is annoying. I will increase the caloric intake starting tomorrow. I kept the calories that low because I was afraid I would put on weight, and it seems that this has gotten me nowhere. I hope I will be able to fix the situation in time.
 

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I started eating more. I still eat about 5 meals per day plus snacks between them (fruits, low-fat yogurt, etc.). I'm curios how this will work out.
Another question: when I measure myself around the waist, the numbers differ every day. What could be the reason: water, fat, or what?
 
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