"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Weight Gain Supplements??
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
NEWBIE101
Senior Don Juan
NEWBIE101
Senior Don Juan
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
NEWBIE101
Senior Don Juan
Take both post workout and mix the creatine with dextrose to spike your insulin and shuttle the creatine to your cells.
For your workout I would suggest something like this for each bodypart. You can do this twice per week since you're new.
Shoulders,Traps-
Overhead DB Press 3x6-10
DB Side Lateral Raises 2x6-10
DB Bent Over Raises 2x6-10
DB Shrugs 3x8-12
Chest-
Flat DB Press 3x6-10
Incline DB Press 3x6-10
Dips(leaning forward) 3x6-10
DB Flys 2x6-10
I gave you what I thought for what you asked. Personally I think a full body routine done twice a week would be best for you.
Hope this helps. If you have questions or comments then just ask.
Yes, and the best way to do this is by drinking a few protien shakes a day.Originally posted by bman
5 pounds isnt that much, i dont think you need any weight gainer. just increase your daily calories.
DJ Girevik
Senior Don Juan
Weight gain supplements = overpriced. Food is better and cheaper. Eat more meat, drink more milk, and do high volume workouts. You won't get fat from that.Originally posted by 1-2-3
I was looking to add a little more weight, though I want to stay think and fit/firm. I was wondering what those weight gain supplements are all about, how they work, and what type of exercise you have to do when taking them.
And do multijoint exercises. For biceps do pullups/chins weighted for high volume. For triceps do dips weighted. For chest do bench press. For shoulders and traps to military press. For legs do squats. For back do deadlifts or good mornings. Forget that isolation garbage, and forget machines. Multijoint freeweight lifts will increase growth hormone and testosterone release, especially at high volume.
And do NOT forget creatine. A cycle of that should give you a good 5-10 pounds, even if it is water in your muscles. But forget loading phases. 5g per day is enough.