"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ricorico

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" Desdinova" "Women are more concerned about how you make them feel than how you look? Are we on the same page here? You treat a woman with respect and try to give her compliments thinking it will make her "feel good" and they step all over you. The total opposite reaction to what you are saying. Women don't know what the hell they want.they want a guy who makes them feel confused and uncertain.

Dude, hit a gym and lose the weight. Fat ain't pretty to any women. If a woman is not fat herself,she may settle for the fat guy , but she will hound his ass to no end to lose the weight soon as she starts to date him. I really don't think there are any girls out there with a fat fetish. In fact, most women probably do not really think of how flabby a guy may be when he takes off his clothes. Sorry, but that's the truth.

had a chance to have an easy lay once. The girl was on me within a half hour of meeting at a friends house. She was about 20 pounds overweight but had an amazing baby face, looked alright with her tight jeans and shirt. Girl took her clothes off and all I could see was a flabby fat stomach and thick thighs. Not at all what my brain had imagined. I coul'nt do anything but make an excuse to get the hell out. Sorry, but the reality of fat is a huge turn-off for many peiople.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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