PokerInTheRear
Don Juan
- Joined
- Nov 23, 2010
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Well, three weeks ago I decided to get back in the game after a 3 month break. Starting out with no plates, I have 3 spinning now - 2 acquired online, 1 total fluke I've known for years that I said WTH and gave her a ring...
Went out with both online meets this weekend... Would love to know your opinions on how I played these:
GIRL 1 - FRIDAY NIGHT (2nd date)
Went out to dinner (nothing expensive, and I always pay on first date if I ask them out). Dinner went okay, convo was decent, but seemingly lacking in much of a romantic connection. She had to cut things early, only had a two-hour window for dinner - I know she has finals, but was a bit pissed that she was ending things right after dinner.
I took this as my spiraling down to the crash and burn as far as her IL was going. I walked her to the car and we hugged, then I decided to create some energy and kissed her. She responded well and we full-on kissed for a couple min by her car. I then told her I have some good music in my car we should listen to, she agreed and I walked her back to my car.
We went at it for another 15 min and her whole IL seemed to change... From little at the end of dinner to high asking me, "When can I see you again?" I said I may have some time in the next week or so... Went our ways.
GIRL 2 - SAT NIGHT (1st date)
I picked up girl 2 at her place and we headed out to a local bar for a couple of drinks and to chat. After hour or so, place was getting too loud and I asked her if she wanted to go somewhere where we could hear each other - she did.
We got in my car and I put the car in reverse, then immediately back into park. I turned to her and said, "I'd like to kiss you." She said "Oh?" and I said "yeah" and went in for the kill. Full-on kissing in the car for 10 min or so and I then we left to head to bar 2.
More messing around in the car at bar 2 upon arrival and again after another drink. Drove her back to her place and we kissed and went our ways.
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I sent both girls a short text with 30 min of leaving just saying something to the effect of "Had a great time, was good meeting" both responded with similar responses.
QUESTIONS
How did I do here? Could I have improved? Should I wait now for them to contact me? I have not heard from either since... I'm more interested in girl 2 at this point.
Many thanks...
Went out with both online meets this weekend... Would love to know your opinions on how I played these:
GIRL 1 - FRIDAY NIGHT (2nd date)
Went out to dinner (nothing expensive, and I always pay on first date if I ask them out). Dinner went okay, convo was decent, but seemingly lacking in much of a romantic connection. She had to cut things early, only had a two-hour window for dinner - I know she has finals, but was a bit pissed that she was ending things right after dinner.
I took this as my spiraling down to the crash and burn as far as her IL was going. I walked her to the car and we hugged, then I decided to create some energy and kissed her. She responded well and we full-on kissed for a couple min by her car. I then told her I have some good music in my car we should listen to, she agreed and I walked her back to my car.
We went at it for another 15 min and her whole IL seemed to change... From little at the end of dinner to high asking me, "When can I see you again?" I said I may have some time in the next week or so... Went our ways.
GIRL 2 - SAT NIGHT (1st date)
I picked up girl 2 at her place and we headed out to a local bar for a couple of drinks and to chat. After hour or so, place was getting too loud and I asked her if she wanted to go somewhere where we could hear each other - she did.
We got in my car and I put the car in reverse, then immediately back into park. I turned to her and said, "I'd like to kiss you." She said "Oh?" and I said "yeah" and went in for the kill. Full-on kissing in the car for 10 min or so and I then we left to head to bar 2.
More messing around in the car at bar 2 upon arrival and again after another drink. Drove her back to her place and we kissed and went our ways.
***
I sent both girls a short text with 30 min of leaving just saying something to the effect of "Had a great time, was good meeting" both responded with similar responses.
QUESTIONS
How did I do here? Could I have improved? Should I wait now for them to contact me? I have not heard from either since... I'm more interested in girl 2 at this point.
Many thanks...
