"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Weekend Field Report

The Duke

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Went to a large country dance club this weekend with a friend. The place is huge and always draws lots of attractive women. If you are half way attractive, can sort of dance, know how to talk to girls, and aren’t afraid of putting yourself out there then it’s a blast and you will likely go home with a few numbers if you make the effort. There is something about dancing and physical touch that speeds up the process in making a connection with a woman.

#1: I danced with several girls and finally found one in the middle of her group of friends that I was highly attracted to. Went right over, took her hand, looked her in the eyes and smiled ,then you’re next! We end up dancing for 3 or 4 songs and had some good convo on the dance floor. She claimed she had a boyfriend in another state! It didn’t phase me and was likely bogus. Her actions said otherwise. After I took her back to her friends I made sure to introduce myself. She then tells me I can dance with her anytime I want!

An hour later I find her again and we dance some more and this time get her phone number. I end up trying to guess her age and usually I can nail that within 2yrs. I guess her to be 37 and she is actually 32. I got all sorts of hell for this….haha but it was fun trying to smooth it over. I made sure to bust her balls in a playful manner about having a boyfriend.

Before I left, I asked her how many guys she gave her number to and why she gave me hers. She said I was the only guy that got her number that night and it was because I was the most aggressive and didn’t care what the outcome was. Choose your own destiny fellas! On a side note, I forgot this girls name so if you guys have any clever ideas on how to figure that out let me know.

#2: I ended up meeting a couple at the bar. The guy was going on about how hot the bartender was and he wanted to kiss her. Lol. That’s when he explained to me that him and his girl were swingers. He tells me all about the lifestyle and his “open” relationship. He is free to do whatever he wants and she is too. That became obvious once she(super hot body, not a great face tho) took me out on the dance floor when they started playing hip hop. This girl was grinding all over my dihk grabbing my ass. After a few minutes....I’m hard. We walk back to the bar and her guy offers me a drink. Now I'm aware of the little game they have going. He tells me that his girl wants to take me home. With a still hard dihk and about 4 drinks into the night, I’m seriously contemplating this. But my old age kicked in and told them thanks but I needed to head home. In my younger days I know I would have signed up for that adventure.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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