"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Weed/booze throwing off my game?

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Well in the past few weeks ive been tryin to improve my attitude and just basically talk to more people. Its going ok, except i think im too much of a joker then a ****y guy. People tell me im funny though so thats ok. ANYWAYS getting back to the issue, living in canada almost everyone smokes weed and drinks on weekends. Well i enjoy them too but it gives me problems. I would go to a party and be doin real good, talking to people ive never met and flirting with chicks etc etc. and then id smoke a bowl with a few friends and i turn totally silent. I stop talking, and i become so selfconcious of myself and everything i say. It pretty much ruins the entire night cuz im all stupid and shy after that.

Now i know your all probably gonna say, ya just stop smoking, but when you go to a party where literally everyones doing it and EVERYONE offers you some, well it gets hard to turn down. Even the preppy girls in my school smoke weed. Everyone does.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I feel U

Hurrr ellipsis, even though I have no idea what an ellipsis is hurr!!!

U!
 
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TyTe`EyEs

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Originally posted by trippychip
then id smoke a bowl with a few friends and i turn totally silent. I stop talking, and i become so selfconcious of myself and everything i say. It pretty much ruins the entire night cuz im all stupid and shy after that.

That is the main reason why I quit smoking weed. I smoked weed on the regular for 3 or 4 years, then I just up and quit.

I haven't smoked in about a year. People try to get me to smoke every weekend, but I pass. I would much rather drink and be social than smoke and be paranoid.

Person: Why don't you smoke TyTe`EyEs?

Me: Because I don't like that sh1t.

End of story.
 

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Well, what's more important to you? Weed or the ladies? You don't always hafta smoke at parties. I usually do, but that doesn't get me shy, I am the opposite of you when it comes to that I guess. If you don't want to turn it down cause you wont be "cool" anymore then just say you aren't feeling well or something. Or just walk away from it without saying anything. Noone is gonna chase you down. Once you get a gal, then you can maybe start back up again. I donno, it's kinda tough situation. Just trying to throw down some ideas.
 

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Re: I feel U

Originally posted by E_ze05
...i can fell u one the fact that its hard to turn down....cuz no lie, everyone is doin dat shyt......even dem cheerleaders n shyt...but me personally...i wouldnt go wit a girl dat smokes joints...but thats me cuz...i think u pwesonally should put da stuff down...before u worry bout djing....cuz no dj could pull biddys strung out...u kno..
A perfect example of a side effect of weed.

Terrible, 'aint it?

Another reason to quit smoking.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Quit being a b*tch and just smoke some of that dank ass sh*t and shut the f*ck up!
 

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bro, hit the dank and talk. Only smoke a bowl or so[thats personals, so maybe 4-5 BIG hits]. and drink like...3-5 beers and you're set.
Or just drink. its much more of a social event, when i smoke with girls i can't get too stoned ever or i act retarded haha[last time: i couldn't stop dancing, i'ma good dancer..but i COULD NOT STOP lol].
jsut dont' overthink ****, thats the kinda high that i keep to myself.
Try an new device. I find bongs produce a more party-like high than say...a bowl or gravity. Joints are eh
 
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I got some cali chronic for only 45 an eighth! dont be shy yall
 
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