Weddings are so depressing

[bigdave17]

went to an Armenian wedding today with old family friends I haven't seen in 3 to 7 years. Had about 20 people legit say some variation of "Wow Dave you look fantastic, how the hell aren't you married?". Of course, there were a million women there and none of them seemed to be single there.

Seriously, is it really this easy to find women for the rest of the world that it's so baffling for a 29 year old man to be single? And how the hell does the avg guy find anybody? There is not a chance in hell even 5% of men can cold approach random strangers successfully. Everybody just getting lucky through friends?

I went into online dating super excited and looking forward to some good results and I can't even get anybody to read my messages much less get any quality females on there. Holy cow and I thought the difficulty curve of real life dating was incredible. OLD is like a 1000 times higher

 

[bigdave17]

Because you're a beta male

here's honestly the biggest thing that really baffles me about dating - how the average guy ever gets any decent looking females.

Think about it realistically

1)95% of people are terrified of talking to strangers. Not a chance in hell can average guy or even most guys chat up random women at a gym or a store and get a date out of it. I talk to people about the notion of making friends or getting woman via approaching strangers and everybody is terrified by it

2)90% of men are nowhere near attractive enough for online dating. Most men are chubby,short and/or don't have good enough facial aesthetics. You to have be bare minimum a 7/10 in the face, at least 5'10- 6'1 height and decent physique and lean or you're worthless as a male. This is, at best, 10% of men (maybe 5%). And I say bare minimum a 7/10 in the face - you really need to be in the 8.5 to 9/10 range nowadays. I'm 7.5 in the face and I'm invisible on online dating


so how the hell does everybody do it? are they all just getting lucky through friends or work?

 

[devilkingx2]

I thought weddings were supposed to be full of single girls?

 

[lamath]

I thought weddings were supposed to be full of single girls?

From my experience they are.
But you got to be able to let go and have some fun.
If too many boring people at the party make them drink, start a drinking game, start dancing like a cry mother****er etc..

Problem with Dave is that everywhere he goes its for the ladies (no hot ladies that throw themselves at him its not fun).
You got to be able to enjoy the time with your friend and yourself, that would change the entire mindset and make you even more attractive to the ladies.


btw:
Dave i can relate to you on many of those aspect. However my attitude was never as negative as yours
In some social situation i crush on other i suck bad( Bar/night-club)
I always had a hard time going after women if im not like 100% they are somehow interested
All the gf/hook up i ever had came on to me.
With age now i think im overall better will start dating again soon so we will see.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Have you seen the movie "Wedding crashers"? This is how a guy is supposed to view it.

 

[17 shots]

You say there were a million women there, but none of them were single.... I doubt that

 

[mrgoodstuff]

You say there were a million women there, but none of them were single.... I doubt that

Hes in their crying about his fantasy bride instead of seeing opportunity all around him.

 

[spinich]

Just another reason not to be with a female. Please just come out already. It's ok for you to swing the other way....

 

[Ranger]

The reason you are beta Dave is because you think there might be a special women with a Golden pvssy out there for you.
But don’t feel bad. Most of the threads on here are betas who have all the knowledge but still can’t shake mommy’s influence. Hell, they can’t even recognize it in themselves.

 

[HankHill]

Had about 20 people legit say some variation of "Wow Dave you look fantastic, how the hell aren't you married?". Of course, there were a million women there and none of them seemed to be single there.

Good gawd! this is getting too old Dave I can see the progression of your threads from a mile away without even reading them.

Step1: Choose a thread title to pull people in
Step 2: Find a way to mention how great you are top 1% looks, great salary etc
Step 3: B1tch and M0an about not being able to find a tan hottie with nice t1ts and @ss who's single
Step 4: Repeat every 24 to 48 hrs.