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ok here's my question.

ive been dating this girl for a month now and we're close and all...(of course things can only be intimate up to a certain point when youve only been dating for a month.) but the fact is that i like her very much.

anyways, one of my older sister's friends is getting married and she invited "me + one" to come...

my question is...how early can you invite a girl you're dating to accompany you to one of these things....its not just a simple date here cus we'll be in the wedding and vows environment and that can make a girl start thinking about ur relationship. ( and ive seen where they're planning on having the wedding...its a friggin castle! beautilful scene to the river, great terrasse...basically where every girl wants her wedding)

This could scare her, creep her or make her think this relationship is going too fast or getting too serious too quickly....the possibilities of things that can go wrong are endless either for me or her...

should i invite her or take someone else?

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Doesn't metter, as long as you tell the gurl; not to get any ideas:D , The reason is; because it's not an actual date. A date is when It's about two of you. In this case, she is just arm candy.
 
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ummm, I really don't see what the big deal here is, just don't act like an AFC and you'll be fine.
 
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well the thing is this girl had issues with her parents getting separated and bla bla bla ... so she's got intimacy issues. (ive been running after her for like 5 months before we actually started going out :rolleyes: ) so i now shes gonna feel weird about accompanying me to this thing especially after only dating for a month

do you guys foresee anything going wrong?
 
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so would inviting someone else like a close friend be a bad idea also??

its either her or no one?

cus after only a month u know....its still fuzzy what we feel for each other no?
 

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You know her for 1 month only?! Just tell her you are invited to someone's wedding thats all. Usually at weddings there is limited number of guests so she will understand if you are going by yourself (just don't mention to her that you can bring a guest).

Go out by yourself and enjoy the wedding. Great place to meet chicks as well.
 
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Originally posted by DJDamage
You know her for 1 month only?! Just tell her you are invited to someone's wedding thats all. Usually at weddings there is limited number of guests so she will understand if you are going by yourself (just don't mention to her that you can bring a guest).

Go out by yourself and enjoy the wedding. Great place to meet chicks as well.
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yah , what he said!
 
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ive been dating her for 1 month

ive known her for 6 months now...
 
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