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PDubb75

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Hey guys,

I RSVPed to a wedding with a +1 back when I was with my ex. The girl I was planning on taking now can't go. The wedding is this Saturday, and I'll feel like a complete a$$hole if they pay for a guest that I don't bring.

I really don't have many platonic female friends, and I don't want to bring a plate to this wedding because my parents and nearly my entire company will be there (president of my company's son is the groom).

Anyone have any decent ideas on finding a random girl (in person and/or online) to take? Tips? Am I completely crazy for even considering that? Obviously a wedding is quite different than asking a random girl to get a drink.

I almost feel crazy even asking this. But my time is running out. Appreciate any help.
 

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PDubb75

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Seriously? Nothing? Not even a post telling me I'm an idiot for thinking this?
 

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PDubb75 said:
Hey guys,

I RSVPed to a wedding with a +1 back when I was with my ex. The girl I was planning on taking now can't go. The wedding is this Saturday, and I'll feel like a complete a$$hole if they pay for a guest that I don't bring.

I really don't have many platonic female friends, and I don't want to bring a plate to this wedding because my parents and nearly my entire company will be there (president of my company's son is the groom).

Anyone have any decent ideas on finding a random girl (in person and/or online) to take? Tips? Am I completely crazy for even considering that? Obviously a wedding is quite different than asking a random girl to get a drink.

I almost feel crazy even asking this. But my time is running out. Appreciate any help.
Tell them what happened so they might be able to invite someone else in her place
 

doctorj

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you're willing to bring a total stranger but not a plate? I'm sure even if you bring a friend everyone would think she's a date, might as well bring a plate...one which would fit in well in the said event
 

PDubb75

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I actually would rather bring a stranger than deal with a plate thinking it's more than it is, and then needing to end it because she wants to be exclusive. Plus the one plate I even considered wouldn't be able to go.

I may ask this girl that works at my gym, I'm just hoping it doesn't get all awkward if she says no, since I see her 5 times a week.
 

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i just think it's too strong a thing to ask a random girl at the gym
 
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