"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Wedding coming up: Date or no date?

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My buddy's wedding is a little over a month away, and I'm debating on whether to bring a date or not. There's only going to be around 100 people, so I'm not sure how many single girls will be in attendance. In terms of girls I can bring, I'm considering a HB9 who I've talked to online but have had difficulty scheduling a first date with. She always returns my calls/emails but seems to always be busy. I think she's playing hard to get and wants me to call her out on it. Before I go off on a tangent about her, do you think I should ask her to be my date for the wedding?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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err, if she always seems to be busy, that's not good
 
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weddings are always very good for meeting single women. i'd talk to my buddy about who's going to be there, then decide. i wouldn't take the flakey HB9.
 
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Ok, so you are asking us if you should take A GIRL YOU HAVE NEVER MET AND HAVE NOT EVEN SEEN IN REAL LIFE to a wedding next month?
 
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Go solo to the wedding. Keep the online flakey chick out of it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i always thought you didnt bring a date to a wedding unless you were already dating them.
 
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If you are not in LTR then bringing a girl to a wedding makes as much sense as bringing a sandwich to a restaurant buffet or bringing sand to the beach.

There bound to be some single chicks from the bride side, ask your buddy to help you get hooked up.

Just remember that its double the price to bring a date to a wedding.

DJD
 
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Heh, A girl just asked me to be her date at this upcoming wedding in June.
 
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Forget a date. Bring an attractive female friend, be seen with her, and then proceed to game any single girl you think is hot.
 
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Are you in the wedding or just a spectator? If you're in the wedding DO NOT bring anyone. You're already on chick radar.

If you're not a cast member go ahead and drag a chick along. Don't ask her though, tell her she's coming.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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KarmaSutra said:
Are you in the wedding or just a spectator? If you're in the wedding DO NOT bring anyone. You're already on chick radar./QUOTE]

So true!
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DJDamage said:
If you are not in LTR then bringing a girl to a wedding makes as much sense as bringing a sandwich to a restaurant buffet
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