Website I found...

[bonjove]

Ok, I was doing a little websurfing and found this link.

http://www.geocities.com/datingadviceus/fall_in_love.html#fall_in_love

I'd like you guys to read this before making a comment, but this guy advises you to treat the woman you are dating like a friend during the date. I don't think everything he says is good advice here, but what do you all think?

 

[jakethasnake]

I kind of agree, but then again not really. I'm just going by the statement "treat a woman like she's a friend" itself - I've yet to read the link.



Treating a woman like any ol' friend makes you ditch the pressure of trying to impress her, say the right suave line, touch her just so and so... all that distracting ****.


But then again you can't treat a pretty girl like you date like some regular you meet at the local tavern. It don't work like that.


It may be hard for a reserved guy to understand - but the key is to act like a coy girl at the same time. Sounds strange, huh? But listen up. Women love roundabout wordplay and sly flirting - much in their own style. A guy who can combine that with the emotionally detached attitude of a friend (but still the assertive mindset of a male that makes the moves on her) will see better success than a guy who just treats her like one of the guys or comes on too damn strong and aggressively.

I am a naturall flirtatious person - I can flirt shamelessly with the best of the chick-****teasers, in their own teasin, coy style. I've been called coy and a gameplayer on more than one occasion - but funnily enough, it works pretty well.

 

[sux2bu]

Excerpt: "Believe me, even a prostitute likes to be treated like a lady."


Umm, I don't know about all that now..


Excerpt: "Before long you'll have so many girls wanting to go out with you, you want have time for them all. Won't that be nice?"


Easier said than done.


Excert: "Do not ever flirt with other women when you're on a date. The girl you're with should get all your attention."


Ok, I have a problem with this one. It's ass backwards. I ALWAYS flirt with the waitress, especially if she's cuter than my date. This does several things:

1. It gives off the impression that she can be easily replaced -(YOU ARE IN THE DRIVERS SEAT).

2. Displays that you are not afraid to be yourself around her.

3. It will make her compete for your affection more.