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Don Juan
Do we have anyone here who is master of building websites? I'm trying to learn. Now I'm using joomla cms. Any tips or suggestions?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
ah ok thanks for letting me know - i've not used joomla before - I should've checkedbackbreaker said:well, Joomla is not static. Joomla is built using php/mysql platform. it in itself is dynamic. A static site is one that simply does not call information from a database. In otherwords, straight html where you have to download the page and put it in dreamweaver and edit the content and upload back, that's a static site
This is basically me right now. Do you have any good sources on learning how to make, set up, and design websites properly? I understand that if I ever want to be paid well, I need to do my job well.beucase they don't have the abaility to do anything other than probably take a tempalte and put it in joomla.
sitepointforums.comFly By Night said:What would be the best way to actually learn php/sql? I took an sql class over the summer and nearly got an A, yet I know nothing about actually getting it on a site and so and so. All I can say I learned from that class is how to make entity relational diagrams and SQL code. I'm designing a website for someone using an online website builder and it looks very generic.
This is basically me right now. Do you have any good sources on learning how to make, set up, and design websites properly? I understand that if I ever want to be paid well, I need to do my job well.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.