"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Web Design Client prob

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silverwex

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Hey guys,

I have finished a site for a client which hasnt been in touch with me in ages although she did say at the time she really wanted it done... and fast.

Anyway, its uploaded to my client holding page. Ive sent her on a letter and invoiced/billed her - while also sending an email asking if she could send on her domain FTP address and password.

She hasnt replied at all - Ive sent all the above about 3 weeks ago - also I havent heard from her in 3-4 months!

What would you do? She aint getting away with this :p

Ring her and put her under pressure? Send another invoice/bill? Send another email?

Thanks.

PS - Web design is THE WORST job for getting paid for, it usually takes months for the client to cough up the money! :mad::p :p
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Shiftkey

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Educate yourself on contract law. She DID sign a contract right??

Web design is THE WORST job for getting paid for, it usually takes months for the client to cough up the money!
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I doubt it's web design that is to blame. It sounds more like you need to tighten up your business practises.
 
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