You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
lol i agree, im plenty secure with myself, and ive got more girls than i have time for
Thats like a woman saying a man isnt gay if they like a finger up his ass during sex cause its a girl doing it...Some girls enjoy doing this sh1t too...The whole world is gonna turn gay...
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
dam straight! you are so right! once oyu start thinking of it like this, then going by there theory, acting like a pu$$ey rather then a man is good because it shows you are not insecure about your maleness. BUt wait a second if you are an alphamale then you will act like a man because thats how you are, so maybe just maybe, if your straight you will act straight because thats how you are. You will ot act gay because you know you are straight just in the same wya that you will not act like a pu$$ey because you know you are a real man, it just does not work.
i sense a homophobe
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I told you, if you wanna be homo, it's your call and I could care less. What I have a problem with is you trying to convince others your homo trend is cool and in, and calling people insecure when they tell you they don't think that sh!t is right.
And that's the root of the problem. Even tho you have come to this site, you haven't learned anything, you are still AFC deep inside. You still TRY to impress girls, instead of making them impress you. You cater to what they like, instead of the other way around. If one said she thought pink hair was hot, you and other afcs would dye it. If another said a guy wearing a dress was hot, you and other afcs would wear it cause you have no minds of your own.
Do you understand how many of people in that industry (designers, photographers, magazine editors, etc) are all gay? Of course they're gonna put sh!t in their mags that THEY like. And of course, clueless people with no minds of their own will follow it to a T saying "well if it's in GQ, it must be done". Get a f*cking mind of your own.
Thanks bro. It's pretty simple, start off by getting down your bodyfat down to 8%, then begin a clean bulk program. If you want to know more PM me and I'll see if I can help.
I disagree with this because it implies that anyone who dresses "to impress" is an AFC. Many of the best PUAs dress in a way to make themselves really stand out, including painting their nails. It's not AFC to dress in a way that girls think is attractive. Whether they do or not is another matter, but if shagnscoob is getting mad compliments on his style then it's not going to hurt him in the long run.
Dudes painting their nails?!!!! The fukk is up with this homo ****? I swear, in 10 years alot of dudes are gonna turn gay...
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Don't call him a homo! That's rude! So what if he wears women's clothing? So what if he paints his nails? So what if he comes home from a hard day of work and decides to pop in Kenny G and take a bubble bath with some sea salts and scented oils? That doesn't mean he's GAY!!!!!
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.