"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Wearing Blazers/Sports Jackets

djinhell

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I see a lot of PUA's wearing blazers/sport jackets when they game girls etc...Im thinking of investing in one or two myself and trying it out.

I mean, hardly any other dudes I see around wear them, and they are quite stylish..I think lol.

Anyone else wear them? Anyone hate them?

your views pls.
 

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You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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one of my friends has this dusty old tan trench that looks like
something out of the old west and women eat that sh!t up
 

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I wear one often. Lots of pockets for the phone, PDA, iPod, glasses, business cards, etc. It'll set you apart, too.
 

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I have a sailing blazer and I use my suit jackets as well, either over a clubbing shirt, or over a plain T-shirt that shows up the UV (mainly white, got a choral pink and a baby-blue as well)
 

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yeah, I like sport coats, though I wear them for fashion, not just for picking up girls. Geez, what's with you guys and doing everything just to pick up girls? If you like a piece of clothing wear it, not to pick up girls but because you like it. As well, don't copy someone elses fashion style just because he's good with girls, create your own.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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kal your totally right dude. i forget that a lot and i have to keep reminding myself to just have fun with it, not make it my entire life.

but on a side note, tyler durden from fight club wore that red blazer thing and it was the tightest look i think ive ever seen. i have been trying to cme up with a look of my own for a while now but i still havent nailed it.
 

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Sport jackets are fun,

and I'd never wear one to the club again.


They are hot, you can't dance (if you ever want hands above your shoulders), they can get easily damaged by drinks, did I mention they are hot?

Now add a blazer and unless you are outside or it's generally cold, I wouldn't do it.
 

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I usually go with the Casual, laid-back look. Which fits my personality. So a sport coat is a bit too much for me.

In my opinion, a sport coat makes you look "Serious" and I absolutely hate when people take me too seriously.
 

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I have a few that I wear regularly. If you look comfortable in them, go for it. The key is to not come across too serious (as someone mentioned already.) Stick to slimmer, more stylish cuts to avoid the 'old man in brass-buttoned blazer' look.
 
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Kal0051 said:
yeah, I like sport coats, though I wear them for fashion, not just for picking up girls. Geez, what's with you guys and doing everything just to pick up girls? If you like a piece of clothing wear it, not to pick up girls but because you like it.

I think it's pretty gay to wear anything "for fashion" if it isn't to impress women.
 

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Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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TyTe`EyEz said:
I think it's pretty gay to wear anything "for fashion" if it isn't to impress women.
so, the only reason you dress well is to impress women? Personally I feel better when I'm not dressed like a slob. Your comment does cements my belief that most guys' lives revolve around impressing women, when you should just do what you want, when you want, and think of the women in your life as gravy.
 

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Sport jackets and blazers look good with hoodies in the fall/winter, if youre going to a club with the plan to dance, dont wear one, if youre going to a bar/lounge with a relaxed atmosphere wear one. Looks good, girls love guys with style.
 
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Kal0051 said:
so, the only reason you dress well is to impress women? Personally I feel better when I'm not dressed like a slob. Your comment does cements my belief that most guys' lives revolve around impressing women, when you should just do what you want, when you want, and think of the women in your life as gravy.

I, too, feel better when I'm not dressed like a slob, but that's because I feel like I'm more attractive to women. I don't dress up for dudes.
 

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TyTe`EyEz said:
I, too, feel better when I'm not dressed like a slob, but that's because I feel like I'm more attractive to women. I don't dress up for dudes.
I dress up for myself. Attracting women is just a nice extra.
 
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I dress up for myself. Attracting women is just a nice extra.

Why do you dress up for yourself? I'm not trying to be a d1ck; I honestly don't understand. What makes you feel so good: the fact that you spent a good chunk of change on clothing? I know you may say comfort, but dressing up and putting on a blazer isn't exactly comfortable. If you were dressing for comfort you'd probably be wearing sweat pants or basketball shorts.

Bottom line: You dress up to impress women, just like everybody else.
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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TyTe`EyEz said:
Why do you dress up for yourself? I'm not trying to be a d1ck; I honestly don't understand. What makes you feel so good: the fact that you spent a good chunk of change on clothing? I know you may say comfort, but dressing up and putting on a blazer isn't exactly comfortable. If you were dressing for comfort you'd probably be wearing sweat pants or basketball shorts.

Bottom line: You dress up to impress women, just like everybody else.
lol, I don't really spend that much on clothing, most of my clothes are inexpensive comfortable clothes with a few pieces of more expensive clothing for when I go out (or for special events). I don't find blazers to be uncomfortable, but mind you I pretty much wear a blazer/jacket year round, so maybe I'm used to it (I love leather jackets and own quite a number of them in different styles). So yeah, I do like when I look good, mostly because I know I look good (don't need any girls to reinforce that, but don't think I miss the looks I get :D ).
 

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djinhell said:
I see a lot of PUA's wearing blazers/sport jackets when they game girls etc...Im thinking of investing in one or two myself and trying it out.
You can wear any ugly shirt and put a decent blazer/sport coat and look fashionable.

I currently have 5 blazers/sport coats which probably cost me close to $1000. Best wardrobe investment I ever made. They give me confidence walking around knowing i'm the best dressed guy around considering what my fellow peeps wear around where i live. It also gives me more confidence with HB's since if you dress sharp their level gets lowered and yours is raised.

I was not inspired to wear sport coats by watching PUAS, I was inspired by watching this movie
 

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I've ALWAYS got people calling me gay it's just the danger's of the "feminine dandy", probably my most dominate personality trait...
Robert Greene's "The Art of Seduction said:
The greater dangers will often come from your own sex. Valentino had immense appeal for women, but men hated him. He was constantly dogged with accusations of being perversely unmasculine.
I love dressing up, and the women love me for it. Fact is, I dress up for ME.
 

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Phoenix said:
I've ALWAYS got people calling me gay it's just the danger's of the "feminine dandy", probably my most dominate personality trait...


I love dressing up, and the women love me for it. Fact is, I dress up for ME.
Hear, hear.

I like wearing pink and baby blue. I used to get a ****-load of stick for it, mainly being 'gay', now most of my friends have gotten used to it and are less condescending ('I couldn't wear that - at least you're certain of your sexuality and are man enough for it')
 
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