"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Wearing Blazer

Italia

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In a High School setting, is it too much to wear a blazer?
I have a TAN Banana Republic blazer, planning on wearing it with dark blue jeans with white shoes.
I have this cool tan skull shirt that I want to wear under it.
If blazers are ok to wear at High Schools, then is the outfit I just vaguely described match? If not, please list things that can, thank you. :)
P.S. I just found out like 2 minutes ago that it's a blazer SUIT!!! I'm pretty sure that's not going to work :/
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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It's-Me

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Italia said:
In a High School setting, is it too much to wear a blazer?
I have a TAN Banana Republic blazer, planning on wearing it with dark blue jeans with white shoes.
I have this cool tan skull shirt that I want to wear under it.
If blazers are ok to wear at High Schools, then is the outfit I just vaguely described match? If not, please list things that can, thank you. :)
Yeah it should be chill because your being different from others and you're dressing nicely. It's more something to wear at parties, but it would definitely look good.
 

Italia

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My bro, which gave me the blazer told me it is a blazer SUIT and that I shouldn't wear it to school. Because its a Business suit. But to me it looks nice, a bit formal but nice with my dark blue jeans.
I could be wrong, please give advice, so I dont look like a fool! :D
 

thedoc

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I, personally think it would be too much. People would either think you're trying too hard to get noticed or you simply have to do some sort of presentation. That's my opinion on it at least.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Beavis

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It isn't to much, but the people that you go to school with will think it is. Anything different is considered as bad to people in high school. Just dress casually classy and that shoud be good. Thats a amazing store to get your stuff from, BR is amazing.
 

eaglez1177

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Please, for the love of god, DO NOT wear a blazer or blazer suit or anything that fancy to school. Your just going to be embarassing yourself, trust me.
 
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