"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Wearing Blazer

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Italia

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In a High School setting, is it too much to wear a blazer?
I have a TAN Banana Republic blazer, planning on wearing it with dark blue jeans with white shoes.
I have this cool tan skull shirt that I want to wear under it.
If blazers are ok to wear at High Schools, then is the outfit I just vaguely described match? If not, please list things that can, thank you. :)
P.S. I just found out like 2 minutes ago that it's a blazer SUIT!!! I'm pretty sure that's not going to work :/
(Has 3 buttons)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Italia said:
In a High School setting, is it too much to wear a blazer?
I have a TAN Banana Republic blazer, planning on wearing it with dark blue jeans with white shoes.
I have this cool tan skull shirt that I want to wear under it.
If blazers are ok to wear at High Schools, then is the outfit I just vaguely described match? If not, please list things that can, thank you. :)
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Yeah it should be chill because your being different from others and you're dressing nicely. It's more something to wear at parties, but it would definitely look good.
 
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My bro, which gave me the blazer told me it is a blazer SUIT and that I shouldn't wear it to school. Because its a Business suit. But to me it looks nice, a bit formal but nice with my dark blue jeans.
I could be wrong, please give advice, so I dont look like a fool! :D
 
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I, personally think it would be too much. People would either think you're trying too hard to get noticed or you simply have to do some sort of presentation. That's my opinion on it at least.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It isn't to much, but the people that you go to school with will think it is. Anything different is considered as bad to people in high school. Just dress casually classy and that shoud be good. Thats a amazing store to get your stuff from, BR is amazing.
 
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Please, for the love of god, DO NOT wear a blazer or blazer suit or anything that fancy to school. Your just going to be embarassing yourself, trust me.
 
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