Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I wanted to bump this thread because of how relevant this info is. Get rid of the laptop, porn, and video games, TECHNOLOGY IS A CURSE.Drewskie said:I must say, now that I have read lots of the material out there, this is still one of the best.
Can someone post the pdf for this? The link that was posted in 2003 IS DOWN.naSTIboost said:Thanks for bumping this post! Some solid stuff here for sure. I will do this and post results.
Mister T the link is in the DJ Bible at the bottom of this page. Open that up and you can download it from there along with the also excellent 'Book of Pook'Mister T said:Can someone post the pdf for this? The link that was posted in 2003 IS DOWN.
PLEASE DO!!!!!
AND RIGHT NOW, I'm in the process of deleting all my "technology" --- deleting Team Fortress 2, Counter-Strike, etc.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Mister T said:I wanted to bump this thread because of how relevant this info is. Get rid of the laptop, porn, and video games, TECHNOLOGY IS A CURSE.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I fixed the links. They all work now.listed in the DJ bible but the links in the original post just bring me back to the discussions forum
Awesome ! Back to my studiesI fixed the links. They all work now.