"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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WealthyMen: A Golddiggers' Haven

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So I was leasurely reading news stories online at work today and was thrown off by an advertisement towards single women.

The caption read "Meet men who make over 100k in California"(jpeg) It was a picture of a mature woman in a bikini, sunglasses, top hat leaning in on a bronze-tan man with his short off, long slick back hair like Miami Vice.

The link jumped to WealthyMen.com it's like a Match.com but purely for Mercenaries aka Golddiggers looking for single men in popular metro cities. Wow. And this was off a major international news site which I will remain unknown.

I knew golddiggers were out there in pricy smoozing venues, but now it's blatantly available on the internet. What are these guys getting themselves into?? These AFCs might as well hand over their divorce settlement, house, car, and 2 kids while they're at it. :rolleyes:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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If a guy chooses to spend his [possibly] hard earned money on these women on women like that it may be because he wants to actually be a sugar daddy. Stranger things can happen; like guys who live paycheck to paycheck but drops money in titty bars. Hard to completely blame the women if there's a market for what they're selling.
 

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what's amusing is that 100k a year in california, esp So Cal, is pretty much sqeaking by.

$8,000 ish per month = about $5,000 after payroll tax, income tax, and anything else yanked for retirement, etc.

$2,000 for a decent place; $1,000 for groceries, workday lunches at $10 a pop, all utilities, phone, cell, cable/internet; $700 a month for a decent car, insurance, gas.

what's left? $1,300, probably less. For? credit card bills, clothes, general **** for house, personal expenses, electronics & furniture budget (which you can/should calculate as a monthly expense. a decent queen mattress alone + bedframe + dresser + night stands sets you back $3,000! flat screen + basic audio, $3,000. you can easily spend $10,000 on new furniture every 5-7 years, etc).

what's left...a couple hundred a month? for what? a vacation once a year, going-out money, entertainment. you have less than nothing left.

haven't even gotten to the gold digger chick yet! doubt they would go for Taco Bell.

$100k is pretty much on the edge for an average lifestyle...cool pad, nice car, and the basics of life. in SF, you're toast. in most of LA or Diego, you're toast.

they should be hitting the 250k or above crowd, bare minimum.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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it might just be a big database that grabs females in some predetermined way. i saw that there were some ukraine and russian girls listed. if you visit the former soviet union you will notice the abundance of marriage agencies listed in tourism guides.

http://www.wealthymen.com/main.php?m=search&c=basic&gp_code=1_noadvert&browse=women&cc=RS&z=
lol...oh my, lebedevanatalia! if i didn't know better i would think that was the maid i had for two months in kharkiv. she came 3 times a week. an old lady was always with her (old in ukraine being about 35). the old lady was surprisingly very friendly. i suspect the younger one was making about $80 a month tops.

http://www.wealthymen.com/main.php?m=search&c=basic&gp_code=1_noadvert&browse=women&cc=US&z=94135
from san francisco in the usa. slight difference in russia and the usa...lol even on sites such as these. do guys actually go for this stuff?
 

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What kind of idiot would put himself on a site like that?
 

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blueguy said:
What kind of idiot would put himself on a site like that?
you'd be surprised how many wealthy men are AFC. many have focused so much on their careers/money that they've ignored their skills with women, their physical fitness, etc. prime targets for the experienced and cunning golddigger female.
 
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