KiInCollege
Senior Don Juan
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I’ve been seeing a lot of common mistakes lately when someone is telling their report, so here is a reminder:
Your strategy should be getting the girl to see you at your best.
This is why we stress no group dates and minimal phone conversations. This is why I stress no chatting over the Internet or no cell texts (I understand in Europe cell texts are the norm. But, like the phone, try to keep it minimal). Forced to see her everyday on campus? Get her number, and then give her minimal contact until your date. Met her at a party or club? Unless you can lay her that night, get her number, and then make sure to leave her wanting more.
These are all weak, indirect interactions that lack full investment on the part of the male. Overuse can hinder your chance at getting the date by slowing the pace of the relationship.
Use these tools only to get the date. When you're on the date, it's face-to-face, rich with body language, and little ambiguity. If you are socially skilled, this situation is where you are strongest.
Questions or experiences encouraged.
Your strategy should be getting the girl to see you at your best.
This is why we stress no group dates and minimal phone conversations. This is why I stress no chatting over the Internet or no cell texts (I understand in Europe cell texts are the norm. But, like the phone, try to keep it minimal). Forced to see her everyday on campus? Get her number, and then give her minimal contact until your date. Met her at a party or club? Unless you can lay her that night, get her number, and then make sure to leave her wanting more.
These are all weak, indirect interactions that lack full investment on the part of the male. Overuse can hinder your chance at getting the date by slowing the pace of the relationship.
Use these tools only to get the date. When you're on the date, it's face-to-face, rich with body language, and little ambiguity. If you are socially skilled, this situation is where you are strongest.
Questions or experiences encouraged.