"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The power of the word "we" should never be underestimated.
It is a powerful word thatm, when used sensibly, elicits a better connection with the person you want to attract.

"I" am not connected
"You" are not connected
"We" are connected

When we say we, we have a bond and on a subconcious level this is drawing us closer.

Ofcourse the "we" statements alone won't work, it must be incorporated into your motivation and not seem forced.

Why does it work?

Well, the use of this word suggests you are already a couple or at least close friends, if only subliminally. Like when you meet a couple and they say "We do love the summer". There is a bridge, a connection built between the couple, and as the word is used in the context of a couple, the use of it between you and your 'target' tends to growing the all important connection and rapport.

We get a sense of relation, if you both have something in common its not "me and her like, (I dunno) KFC", its "we like KFC"

enjoy that one :cool:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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