"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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We should rename this website: The Keyboard Jockey's Discussion Forum

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I_Only_Live_Once

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Seriously it would be more fitting. If you look through this website 40% is theoretical stuff on how to have confidence. About 30% of it is talking about how to pick up internet girls using myspace or some other website. The other 30% is usually some person who asks really stupid newby questions. There are no real men left on here. You guys might as well encourage more girls to use this website, you don't have any balls anyway so what difference does it make?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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hah. myspace nabbed my ex. I'm staying clear from that AW site.
 
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MuayThai

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Too fricking true

I've come to the conclusion most of these guys are helpless. Becuase they are born to be beta, they have NO drive in life, no sex drive, no ambition, no nothing. They are happy sitting on thier asses wilst thier lives and happiness passes them by. No ammount of reading will help you, sorry guys.

As for this forum we need a mod to literally ****ing nuke the place. You should have to have had previous good posts to have your post not considered for deletion.
 
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Re: Too fricking true

Originally posted by MuayThai
I've come to the conclusion most of these guys are helpless. Becuase they are born to be beta, they have NO drive in life, no sex drive, no ambition, no nothing. They are happy sitting on thier asses wilst thier lives and happiness passes them by. No ammount of reading will help you, sorry guys.

As for this forum we need a mod to literally ****ing nuke the place. You should have to have had previous good posts to have your post not considered for deletion.
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Please tell your mom, I can't pay rent and have to move out of her basement now.


J/K.

UNfrtunately, there will always be those that pollute the site.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The Juan and only

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This has been said several times

not another one of these. look, everyone knows that a good majority of posters are KBJs, and that most of the posts are worthless.... it's your job to sort through the crap to get to the decent advice. so stop complaining.

There are hundreds of negative worthless threads, so why start another one?..... and try doing a search next time too.

If you don't like the site/think it's gone to sh1t then leave - I don't think the admins are gonna listen to any calls for a nuking.
 
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Mr. Unique

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Originally posted by I_Only_Live_Once
Seriously it would be more fitting. If you look through this website 40% is theoretical stuff on how to have confidence. About 30% of it is talking about how to pick up internet girls using myspace or some other website. The other 30% is usually some person who asks really stupid newby questions. There are no real men left on here. You guys might as well encourage more girls to use this website, you don't have any balls anyway so what difference does it make?
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Leave then, stop B!tching, ask the moderators to erase your acount and ip and get banned, no ones holding you back. I dont care how many KBJs are in sosuave, I still enjoy visiting this site, its been like this for years but I got used to it cause I know the problem isnt going to get fixed but I dont care.
 
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Originally posted by I_Only_Live_Once
. There are no real men left on here. You guys might as well encourage more girls to use this website, you don't have any balls anyway so what difference does it make?
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Lick me, b*tch-tits.

Not everyone here is a n00b. I agree partly with the idea that most bro's who know they're game are gone, but don't lump every no-game idiot into a group, cool?
 
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n00bPimp

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Lets not forget something, the main purpose of this website is to get advice, not to comment on our successes or adventures. So always expect most of the people here to be new to the game and ask for advice. Thats how we all got started. In my opinion, its not that theres more noobs, but theres less DJs, possibly because they don't need anymore advice and don't care to help others.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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You're basically correct: men that are successfull with women (or a woman) would not likely be on this website. The website is intended to attract people that need support and help in relationships or in "picking up women", so that the folks who pay for this site can sell books. It must cost some money to support this website and have at least one moderator on all the time.
 
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