"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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We should get rid of useless feature.

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Don't you think we should get rid of the "bad" words ********** thingy. I mean people are just running around being like FVCK, sl0t, cl1t, and sh1te
like that.


Anybody agree?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I think it has its charm to say sh*t instead of being able to write it normally


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NeXuS

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Does it really matter?

I mean, it's not that hard to express yourself without those words.
 

trickynick

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It gets kind of obnoxious when someone says:

"So, I tried to sn*tch the girl away from him."

but ****** is a bad word. No big deal, it's just kind of dumb.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The main reason, in my eyes, is that it stops people from finding the site by accedent when searching for porn, or other things. This way the site is found by those who want to use it, not by profane, porn-searchers, as an accedent.

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Originally posted by KinoOI:
The main reason, in my eyes, is that it stops people from finding the site by accedent when searching for porn, or other things. This way the site is found by those who want to use it, not by profane, porn-searchers, as an accedent.
That's a good point, I hadn't thought of that.
 

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Originally posted by KinoOI:
The main reason, in my eyes, is that it stops people from finding the site by accedent when searching for porn, or other things. This way the site is found by those who want to use it, not by profane, porn-searchers, as an accedent.

Nope. Has to do with maturity.

You can figure out the rest.
 

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Any ways bro, most girls hate it when you cursre, but mostly real men dont need to use language like that.

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