jhonny9546
Master Don Juan
The sosuave guide to getting women which you could find here -- actually say so many good things.
The 22 rules could actually be summed up to 7/8 principles, but given this, I stuck upon rule 13.
There is an entire chapter on "Control your emotions" and to "Don't be emotionally involved when a woman do positive or negative things".
So basically they're saying that your mood, your way of doing things, POV, etc, basically your mind, should never focus on anything tha your woman does.
If that is positive, enjoy, if that is negative, ignore, and keep your mood up.
Basically this is what you do, or at least you try to do, with women.
So, everyone here can agree that what women do should never change our attitude as men.
This seems easy. Too easy to say, but too hard to put into practice.
What do I mean?
A woman might text you, "I love you so much. The sex was amazing as always, I loved how you destroyed me, etc." And the next day, because you got home late from work or another event, "You got home late. See, I have to do everything around the house by myself, at this point I'm really fed up. I might just become single at this point." or put here any other insult or direct attack you received from a woman in her emotional spike.
You know very well that if you stay positive and pity her a little while being indifferent, the next day she'll revert to the state she had in the first message, but simply, how do you do that? Some things are disrespectful.
By using this "always positive" and "unaffected by what she does or says" attitude, you can truly be invincible, and you're 100% an "avoidant" type of man.
But in a relationship, the woman will simply lose respect, even if you're "positive" and "happy."
I've simply seen it with my father, my cousin, and some of my friends now. It's like they're repeating the cycle.
Although they're on the side of being "strong men," behaving like described, on the other hand, they've become stressed, mentally ill, and are practically no longer respected by their women, who throw out their emotional drama at them, precisely because they're so "strong." (You know about my father/mother LTR I talked about in other posts).
I understand that it's a quality each of us should have, that is, not being too influenced by what she does or says.
But I think rule 13 is a good point for discussion, since that thing may help men "getting" women, but not at having a good "relationship with them" (either that relationship be a ONS, LTR, STR, Marriage, we might use different approaches)
The original text from Rule 13 is long I've pasted it here https://pastebin.com/6kmh63KV
The 22 rules could actually be summed up to 7/8 principles, but given this, I stuck upon rule 13.
There is an entire chapter on "Control your emotions" and to "Don't be emotionally involved when a woman do positive or negative things".
So basically they're saying that your mood, your way of doing things, POV, etc, basically your mind, should never focus on anything tha your woman does.
If that is positive, enjoy, if that is negative, ignore, and keep your mood up.
Basically this is what you do, or at least you try to do, with women.
So, everyone here can agree that what women do should never change our attitude as men.
This seems easy. Too easy to say, but too hard to put into practice.
What do I mean?
A woman might text you, "I love you so much. The sex was amazing as always, I loved how you destroyed me, etc." And the next day, because you got home late from work or another event, "You got home late. See, I have to do everything around the house by myself, at this point I'm really fed up. I might just become single at this point." or put here any other insult or direct attack you received from a woman in her emotional spike.
You know very well that if you stay positive and pity her a little while being indifferent, the next day she'll revert to the state she had in the first message, but simply, how do you do that? Some things are disrespectful.
By using this "always positive" and "unaffected by what she does or says" attitude, you can truly be invincible, and you're 100% an "avoidant" type of man.
But in a relationship, the woman will simply lose respect, even if you're "positive" and "happy."
I've simply seen it with my father, my cousin, and some of my friends now. It's like they're repeating the cycle.
Although they're on the side of being "strong men," behaving like described, on the other hand, they've become stressed, mentally ill, and are practically no longer respected by their women, who throw out their emotional drama at them, precisely because they're so "strong." (You know about my father/mother LTR I talked about in other posts).
I understand that it's a quality each of us should have, that is, not being too influenced by what she does or says.
But I think rule 13 is a good point for discussion, since that thing may help men "getting" women, but not at having a good "relationship with them" (either that relationship be a ONS, LTR, STR, Marriage, we might use different approaches)
The original text from Rule 13 is long I've pasted it here https://pastebin.com/6kmh63KV