"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Warboss Alex

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Docs said:
You're already dying one! :D
good point, but I'd rather not feel a moral obligation to play referee in 16 year olds arguing about N-Large, why to squat below parallel or how many grams protein per meal.. :D
 

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benefits of being a moderator on such a site? you are still thinking, aren't you? i have been asked many times via private message about taking on such a responsiblity. each and every single time i have politely rejected. once again, i must politely decline. in 6 weeks i will disappear again for 2 more months :cool: hope you boys don't miss my wisdom too much.

anyone who thinks that guys who use this site are seducing throngs of females needs to get his head examined. keyboard jockeys don't count. sorry, skiptomyloser.
 

TheVirtualMind

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sparky0000 said:
benefits of being a moderator on such a site? you are still thinking, aren't you? i have been asked many times via private message about taking on such a responsiblity. each and every single time i have politely rejected. once again, i must politely decline. in 6 weeks i will disappear again for 2 more months :cool: hope you boys don't miss my wisdom too much.

anyone who thinks that guys who use this site are seducing throngs of females needs to get his head examined. keyboard jockeys don't count. sorry, skiptomyloser.
And you are?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Skilla_Staz

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Warboss Alex said:
good point, but I'd rather not feel a moral obligation to play referee in 16 year olds arguing about N-Large, why to squat below parallel or how many grams protein per meal.. :D

Who needs to play ref? Just join in, chuck out the ones who don't know squat. (Pun intended):moon:
 

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I agree lets get moderators to get rid of these one line smart azz trolls. Come on mods lets work together to clean these trolls out.
 

KarmaSutra

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Nasman said:
I agree lets get moderators to get rid of these one line smart azz trolls. Come on mods lets work together to clean these trolls out.
Yeah, because putting your head up someones a$$ will get you far . . .

You useless postule.
 
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