"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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We must open our horizons and date internationally

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But why wouldn't you get divorcedraped in any other country?

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The laws are different in each country. In US, women get the default win most of the time. In other countries it is even or men get the default.

So its possible to happen in other country, just not as likely. In US it is almost 100% chance. Other country, maybe 5% chance or less.

Ever interact with a women's shelter.. they will take the woman at her words, then law enforcement will follow what they want. Often the man does not even get heard or asked. Other country does not allow this.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Or should they level up until they get some leverage over women?
How do you get leverage when the divorce laws / child support dont change?

They seem to be slightly changing now due to the new administration but its still heavily favored to the female.

Btw even if they dont marry the chick dont you think it is a good idea for them to go experience foreign women?

Btw you cant get divorced raped in another country because the laws in most other countries are fair. They also dont have access to your American bank accounts in many nations.
 

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Instead of looking in the mirror and accepting they have things they need to improve and work on, they look for the shortcut to not do any work and find someone who just has low standards.

But it's like when you take a used PC from 2015, change the hard drive to an SSD, add RAM, install a new battery, give it a good cleaning, and update the operating system. However, despite all these upgrades, you realize it's still a bit slow for 2025. Why? The processor can't be replaced; it will remain what it is. So, you'll be satisfied for a few more years until, with the same expense, you can afford a better PC.

Why did I make this analogy? I've written a good report of me, faced reality, and I'm always improving.
I have a more refined perspective on this, absolutely, and I've realized that no matter what I do, I'm at a disadvantage in the market. My "processor" is my height.

I've noticed that many women are fascinated by my confidence, seeing a guy like me who behaves like a man. I also have other qualities and some in development. They are truly fascinated. The fact is that I have a "deficit" that is very easily replaceable "physically." So, you understand very well the position I'm in. Definitely at a disadvantage when it comes to be "replaced easly" in this modern world.

So I had to ask myself where I wanted to focus: you know that I am oriented towards LTR without marriage.
This is why I have always considered focusing on my local market.
 

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This is why passbort bros say what they say.
American culture is too poisonous. You literally have no choices here.

 

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But it's like when you take a used PC from 2015, change the hard drive to an SSD, add RAM, install a new battery, give it a good cleaning, and update the operating system. However, despite all these upgrades, you realize it's still a bit slow for 2025. Why? The processor can't be replaced; it will remain what it is. So, you'll be satisfied for a few more years until, with the same expense, you can afford a better PC.

Why did I make this analogy? I've written a good report of me, faced reality, and I'm always improving.
I have a more refined perspective on this, absolutely, and I've realized that no matter what I do, I'm at a disadvantage in the market. My "processor" is my height.

I've noticed that many women are fascinated by my confidence, seeing a guy like me who behaves like a man. I also have other qualities and some in development. They are truly fascinated. The fact is that I have a "deficit" that is very easily replaceable "physically." So, you understand very well the position I'm in. Definitely at a disadvantage when it comes to be "replaced easly" in this modern world.

So I had to ask myself where I wanted to focus: you know that I am oriented towards LTR without marriage.
This is why I have always considered focusing on my local market.
Yes but your local market is bad. Very bad. Sometimes the grass is greener. Let me know when you find what you are looking for in your market.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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[QUOTE="Gamisch, post: 3147607, member: 159890"

But why wouldn't you get divorcedraped in any other country?
The laws are different in each country. In US, women get the default win most of the time. In other countries it is even or men get the default.

So its possible to happen in other country, just not as likely. In US it is almost 100% chance. Other country, maybe 5% chance or less.

Ever interact with a women's shelter.. they will take the woman at her words, then law enforcement will follow what they want. Often the man does not even get heard or asked. Other country does not allow this.
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This is exactly right. In other countries they are more reasonable. They also dont have this extensive govt welfare system for women.
 

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But why wouldn't you get divorcedraped in any other country?
The laws are different in each country. In US, women get the default win most of the time. In other countries it is even or men get the default.

So its possible to happen in other country, just not as likely. In US it is almost 100% chance. Other country, maybe 5% chance or less.

Ever interact with a women's shelter.. they will take the woman at her words, then law enforcement will follow what they want. Often the man does not even get heard or asked. Other country does not allow this.
This is exactly right. In other countries they are more reasonable. They also dont have this extensive govt welfare system for women.
Yes, but its more than just the welfare system. Its also the judicial system and education system.

For example marriage is a contract. But... only part of it is legally enforced. No big deal for an RP man, in fact for some the situation can be used. For the naïve, its really unfair. The woman can break or ignore the contract but the man can not. And... is held to the contract even if he never signed it. This stuff doesn't happen other places, and the women know it and don't try. Well some try but doesn't work.

So women are the same in all places, but the places are different. People behave differently in different places.

The average non chad man has much more power in other places if he is from the west. He may or may not know how to use that. He can still have a bad time if he is not smart, but he has more power to play with. If you give him that power in the west he will do just as well, but then the law will make his power useless. Don't see women divorcing powerful men in other places.

Its a viable thing for a man to look at all places. No shame in finding a path to win.

We often tell men to go to the big city to find more women.. its a different place.

Life is not just pay to play, its pay to live. everyplace....
 
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