Desdinova
Master Don Juan
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I've been reading these forums for a long time, and it seems that recently the idea of anti-marriage is becoming even more abundant. Men here seem to have decided that women are not worth marriage, and that they should pursue their own goals, hopes, and desires.
The men here have given up on the idea of reproducing and raising children of their own. Dealing with a 5hithead woman isn't worth reproducing.
Now, if we were to bring this to an even broader scale, splitting the DJs from the AFC, we see this trend:
DJs not marrying, not reproducing.
or
DJs "accidently" reproducing, women take the child and slap child support on him
AFCs marrying and reproducing, putting up with the b1tchy wife.
Here's how the evolution of the world is going to happen - nothing will change! AFCs will raise their children to be AFCs, while the DJs die off. Many here have expressed the ideas of a world without AFCs who base their lives of romanticism. This message forum will not alone conquer this. Telling your friends not to put women on a pedestal will not help (they won't listen unless they've fallen hard on their ass).
Marriage can be avoided today with "common-law", but you're still going to have to endure a woman b1tching about not having the wedding. Let's face it, as long as women are around, marriage will exist (even if marriage rates are declining)
Now, if we have DJs reproducing, raising their children with a realistic view of the world, they will most likely pass their realistic views down to their children. This happens naturally, as child abusers will raise their children to be child abusers, alcoholics raising alcoholics, bums raising bums, and the cycle continues. If you've never read a book entitled "Toxic Parents", I suggest picking it up. The author (name escapes me) recognizes the trend of passing on toxic behavior to their children.
We have the ability of using this trend to our advantage instead of avoiding it altogether and accomplishing nothing.
I'm not saying to marry the next woman that comes along, but not ruling out marriage completely. If you fail to find an ideal woman to share your life with, that's fine. Dating is a great way of passing time until finding a decent woman to settle with.
The men here have given up on the idea of reproducing and raising children of their own. Dealing with a 5hithead woman isn't worth reproducing.
Now, if we were to bring this to an even broader scale, splitting the DJs from the AFC, we see this trend:
DJs not marrying, not reproducing.
or
DJs "accidently" reproducing, women take the child and slap child support on him
AFCs marrying and reproducing, putting up with the b1tchy wife.
Here's how the evolution of the world is going to happen - nothing will change! AFCs will raise their children to be AFCs, while the DJs die off. Many here have expressed the ideas of a world without AFCs who base their lives of romanticism. This message forum will not alone conquer this. Telling your friends not to put women on a pedestal will not help (they won't listen unless they've fallen hard on their ass).
Marriage can be avoided today with "common-law", but you're still going to have to endure a woman b1tching about not having the wedding. Let's face it, as long as women are around, marriage will exist (even if marriage rates are declining)
Now, if we have DJs reproducing, raising their children with a realistic view of the world, they will most likely pass their realistic views down to their children. This happens naturally, as child abusers will raise their children to be child abusers, alcoholics raising alcoholics, bums raising bums, and the cycle continues. If you've never read a book entitled "Toxic Parents", I suggest picking it up. The author (name escapes me) recognizes the trend of passing on toxic behavior to their children.
We have the ability of using this trend to our advantage instead of avoiding it altogether and accomplishing nothing.
I'm not saying to marry the next woman that comes along, but not ruling out marriage completely. If you fail to find an ideal woman to share your life with, that's fine. Dating is a great way of passing time until finding a decent woman to settle with.