"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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We have a traitor in our midst . . .

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To be clear, I personally see two issues being batted around here, in so many words. 1. Should iqqi be banned and 2. Did "our" iqqi make that traitorous post. For me anyway, the answer to #1 has been yes for a while. But as far as #2 goes, I'm plenty open to the possibility someone else was trying to smear his/her name, since I can imagine several people here would take pleasure in doing that.

I hope we find out the person that did that, but I'm sure it's impossible now :mad:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm positive karma, vu, rollo, and keostix are the same people, lol.

This is an interesting sociological experiment.
And I think Francisco is David D.
 

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Don't say that or he'll want to start charging again. :p
 

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Come on guys, she wouldn't register under the same name. I doubt it was really Iqqi.
What if she did and realized she was going to get caught, started intentionally trolling (enough to be busted as a troll), and then suggested the thread be deleted?

It's possible.

Whether or not it was "really" Iqqi doesn't matter to me, though. She annoys me =)
 

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Anyone have the post saved to wordpad?

Loveshack deleted it.

Was it slanderous to Penkitten or something?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I just read it, but didn't save it. No it was nothing to do with penkitten.

Oh btw Pook is Anti-Dump. :p
 
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wjh said:
What if she did and realized she was going to get caught, started intentionally trolling (enough to be busted as a troll), and then suggested the thread be deleted?

It's possible.

Whether or not it was "really" Iqqi doesn't matter to me, though. She annoys me =)
I wanted to hit it, but somehow she was on to my game. Say it ain't so Iqqi!
 

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KontrollerX said:
Anyone have the post saved to wordpad?

Loveshack deleted it.

Was it slanderous to Penkitten or something?
It was "iqqi" saying we were a bunch of losers and pathetic for going to war with another site. The OP was a link to one of the so suave threads, the title was something like "we're under attack" or whatever. It was bad though. "Iqqi" basically saying how pathetic the guys at ss were.
 

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Jitterbug said:
I just read it, but didn't save it. No it was nothing to do with penkitten.

Oh btw Pook is Anti-Dump. :p
I was just going by azanon's post mentioning Penkitten as iqqi's target.

Thx for clarifying though bro.
 

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A couple chicks in that thread said they registered here, so now we're being watched.

Not like we weren't anyway, lol.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I believe it was our iqqi and I'll explain why:

1. The audacity of the thread and the tonality is indicative of our beloved rabble rouser.

2. S/He has used gestapo type tactics in the past.

3. S/He is an attention wh0re.

4. (Most importantly) iqqi replied twice to my posts in that thread on a personal level. It knew who I was and our previous run-ins. That's all the proof I needed that it was our iqqi.

I know that within each trouble spot there is a silver lining and the one with this situation is that we will have some new SoSuave soldiers who have abandoned the LS sinking ship and jumped on board our cruiser.

A bonus is that iqqi has finally be seen for what S/He really is.
 

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VU's threads have been deleted.
 

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reset said:
A couple chicks in that thread said they registered here, so now we're being watched.

Not like we weren't anyway, lol.
Yeah whenever you see someone here offering symp advice or criticizing one of the real DJ's here for giving solid advice that is beneficial to men you've either identified one of those LoveShack feminist harpies or what Karma likes to refer to as a pathetic man/boy in need of his own pair of balls.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Victory's stuff was great. That was positive stuff and it's a shame. Guess loveshack is on the defensive. (or offensive).

I KNOW he had those posts saved.
 

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Hmm. I don't think Iqqi is THAT immature to go to such lengths to do that.

I mean she blatantly puts her sosuave name out there on loveshack for the "Others" (meaning us) to see?

She already had another handle there that she just started a couple of days ago. She said she wasn't goign to get involved.

And even if she did, it was pretty funny. Sorry guys. Now both sides are all worked up.

Whoever that "Iqqi" was, he/she wanted to flare up the situation. And it worked!

Jokes on all of us.
 

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I registered with my same name.

But it seems every thread I post in, ends up getting deleted.
 

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I don't think we should be wasting time on giving any attention to this.Don't get caught up in cyber drama.Theres better things to worry about.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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