"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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iqqi is his own Benedict Arnold

I think we're doing nothing but good over there at LoveShack. There is no surrepticious agenda to correlate an attack on those. All we want is to shed new perspective and our own life experiences with other men who may not have the opportunity to ,as yet, find this wonderful place; SoSuave.

What iqqi has done is proivided his own banishment once Allan get's a whiff of the sh!t he's stirring up.

See ya iqqi, it's been fun.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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This whole time I saw people harp on iqqi and never really took sides because I didn't care. There's like two or three known women here, doesn't mean much.

This bugs me though.
 

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I have slept with 30+ women.


I have asked iqqi so many times to post a pic.


I am certain she is ugly or fat...

and would do anything to have a guy like me give her 2 seconds of my time.

but honestly WTF is going on.....what are these other sites...where does this stuff come from?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Wow that was really ugly over there. Iqqi's a dude?

Shower-time.
 

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iqqi gave me a user-rep once and I let it blind me!

This loveshack thing did produce something, it looks like.
 

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ok, so that thread is wild.


I bet my ass so many of those women are ugly or fat
 

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Why hasn't iqqi posted here to defend herself? Are we sure it's the same iqqi?

Iqqi's not liked here, is posting there, but not posting here.

We should be positive someone at loveshack didn't just register as iqqi to draw fire.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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>I've said "iqqi" is male for some time; it was painfully obvious to me. I also recommended "iqqi" be banned for some time due to being an obvious troll.

>Ok, so I know I can't make the camel drink, but still it frustrates the hell out of me sometimes.

>Oh well, when folks (mods in this case) learn things the hard way, sometimes the lesson is better remembered.
 

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iqqis thread got deleted. Which means my three and only posts at loveshack have gone with it.
 

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Why hasn't iqqi posted here to defend herself? Are we sure it's the same iqqi?

Iqqi's not liked here, is posting there, but not posting here.

We should be positive someone at loveshack didn't just register as iqqi to draw fire.
Even if that were true, just the fact that someone would choose her/his name to do something like that gives evidence that her/his posting is of a troll nature.

Case and point, who would do that to someone like..... penkitten? Yes, exactly, .... no one. No motive. Iqqi gives plenty of people here motive, myself included. I'm just too busy for him/her to even be worth my time.
 

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iqqi is a slanderous piece of shi.t.

why the hell would anyone be surprised?
and why the hell was nothing done before about her?

this was highly predictable given her ball-busting personality. yet a few of you kept on and on with her.

i don't totally blame you guys, though, because i once gave her the benefit of the doubt... only to be convinced a short time later of just how ugly she is. some of you didn't learn that.

she openly looked to push buttons, to prod, to poke, only to reinforce her own psychotic and manipulative ego-driven delusions. but no one did anything about it. nope, some of us complained, and wondered why she wasn't banned altogether. that call wasn't ever heeded by whoever the hell the higher-ups are on here.

so now this, which is, by all accounts, at the very least an attempt to undermine what's being done here. save nothing for the slanderous tone.

pathetic. she has over 3,000 posts and not a single person has done anything about it. yet LMS gets banned? ridiculous.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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azanon said:
Even if that were true, just the fact that someone would choose her/his name to do something like that gives evidence that her/his posting is of a troll nature.

Case and point, who would do that to someone like..... penkitten? Yes, exactly, .... no one. No motive. Iqqi gives plenty of people here motive, myself included. I'm just too busy for him/her to even be worth my time.
EXCELLENT point.
 

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Um, guys,

1. No periods.
2. No capitalization.
3. Registered using the name "Iqqi" and keeps saying "hay guys guess what im a troll" . . .

You can't seriously believe that's the same person.
 

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Phyzzle said:
Um, guys,

1. No periods.
2. No capitalization.
3. Registered using the name "Iqqi" and keeps saying "hay guys guess what im a troll" . . .

You can't seriously believe that's the same person.

:nono: Plausible deniability.

azanon's point still stands.
 
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Come on guys, she wouldn't register under the same name. I doubt it was really Iqqi.
 

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I'm positive karma, vu, rollo, and keostix are the same people, lol.

This is an interesting sociological experiment.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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