"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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We gonna get hit by an asteroid, soon

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Unless you're a Billionaire or Deca-Millionaire or have friends, you won't be able to build a bunker unless you have the skills to build your own bunker and the land which let's be honest most folks don't have.

I think preppers well be the best prepared. They have dedicated their lifestyles for situation like this, and when covid hit the preppers were in the best position

We have 4 years....
Preppers are praying for an asteroid lol

Underground buncker out back, just wasting space. Wife giving them an earful ever fvcking day
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Loosely, but you also make dentist appointments weeks in advance sometimes.

I agree though, best to stay in the present, the only thing that's real.
I was joking, but you seem legit in my book

I've been staying present a lot lately. It's not easy to do. You really have to focus.

Turns out, it's also fvcking boring
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I did, but i regretted calling you "nigga" right after.

First of all, i'm white.

Second, and most importantly, i remembered that sosuave is world wide. A nigga in Sweden isn't gonna know that my saying nigga is a term of endearment. @Sophisticator
 
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