"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
We give girls 2 strikes, sometimes 3, and they give us 1 strike
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
JPlaya said:I just noticed this
How did you find out?
Mike32ct
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Correct. I think of it as a video game where you only get one life.JPlaya said:I just noticed this
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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I find it kind of ironic how the guys that get more than 1 strike are usually the men that treat women the worse! (usually seedy characters, jerks, bad boys, criminals).Deadly_Ripped said:People only get one strike when the other person isn't really significantly interested. You can walk all over a woman as long as she's in love with you (not to say that you should, though).
But us normal guys it feels like just 1 show of needyness, failing a few sh*t tests or just the silliest thing is enough for a woman to give us the friend card or dump us.
The better you treat a woman DOES NOT EQUATE TO HER TREATING YOU WELL. Remember that.
I found that out a month ago. I had been smooth sailing for 28 years because I'd never dated a woman I genuinely cared about. I finally get one, and my game goes out the window, and I was a doormat. Friendzoned on date 2. Working my way out of that though.f283000 said:I find it kind of ironic how the guys that get more than 1 strike are usually the men that treat women the worse! (usually seedy characters, jerks, bad boys, criminals).
But us normal guys it feels like just 1 show of needyness, failing a few sh*t tests or just the silliest thing is enough for a woman to give us the friend card or dump us.
The better you treat a woman DOES NOT EQUATE TO HER TREATING YOU WELL. Remember that.
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.