"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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We get into a fight...she wants me to....

Game617

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Ok guys. Here is a question for you. We get into a fight and break up. I get a text from her saying such and such, and she intended on asking me to come over so we can forget all about what happened if I lick her ****. I haven't texted her back...

I'll put it out there. I have a few thoughts on this. She's tell's me she'll forgive me if I go there and ....I'm thinking like, what do I look like your pet Chiwawa?
Out of all ways to approach a problem that we had, her mind gravitates to sex.
Am I just being a prude? Seriously? Or is this chick on a power trip?

(To be honest, I did diss her right after she gave me head. Last week she was giving me sh**, and I told her she can go find another BF. "Would I love her even if she doesn't want sex?" I told her NO.

But I learned a very valuable lesson, never pay any attention to what a woman says, pay attention to what they do. Because many times it's BS. And this one's been flinging it at me....
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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At the very least, get her back into your frame a bit with: "come to my place instead. No promises." Then, do with it what you will.
 

The Gambler

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Some women (and men) love make-up sex. Personally, I despise it.
 
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