"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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we cant fault women...

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...for their capricious acts. Theyre just like that. Theyre happy most days. Their music is upbeat. They give life, they support fetuses lol

Not to be a pushover, but smile to yourself when they flake, act bishy, etc.
Be happy youre a male and go on with your kick azz adventures.

Maybe im hoping for a better future for both genders, but they should be understanding of how males are and leave us be.

It z ying yang, knaw'mean haha jk

Lets focus our threads on good things, we know all the bad things that happen already.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The ones who b*tch about women here tend to give themselves and guys in general too much credit. A lot of the stuff women are faulted for doing would be the same things guys would do if the script was flipped. Not all, but a lot.

Yes women have it much easier in the dating department, and get the better end of the deal in the legal system. It's not fair, but that's how it is. The hordes of desperate pathetic guys out there has definitely contributed to this.

But if the roles were reversed, you'd see a lot of the same behavior in guys. I'm talking about the entitlement, the flaking, using women for attention and validation, using marriage to screw over and ruin women, etc. Instead of there being threads here about how not to get f*cked over from divorce, you'd see threads about how to do the f*cking over.
 
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