"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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'we can only be friends' she agrees 'im not interested in u that way' how to respond?

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If u use something like 'we could only be friends' to a HB and she agrees with something like 'I agree I'm not interested in you that way' how do you respond? It's like she's calling your bluff and testing you. How do you get past this and not be affected?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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With all this "friends" talk, you either step up your game 5 notches and try to get physical or you accept that she really does only want to be friends and you back off.

It's one extreme or the other.

What made you say such a thing to her in the first place?
 
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big weezy said:
If u use something like 'we could only be friends' to a HB and she agrees with something like 'I agree I'm not interested in you that way' how do you respond? It's like she's calling your bluff and testing you. How do you get past this and not be affected?
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She is calling your bluff, but she is NOT testing you, she is breathing a sigh of relief, and glad you brought it up, because she is just not interested in getting naked with you. She will first get naked with her hot first cousin than with you. That line only works if you are in control of the interaction, and know how to get a woman totally attracted to you and how to lead her onto the next step, and know that "being just freinds" is the last thing she wants with you. You don't pull it out just to find out if she likes you or to try to get approval. Btw, you didn't word it right, not that it mattered in this case, since she was already not into you before you spit your line. Don't say "we could only be friends", say something, "Maybe you can be a good friend", the first one implies that it won't go past friends, the second one is ambiguous; yet If you are in total control and have strong game, you can say anything you want and get away with it.

You get past this by letting it roll of your back, and not actually care what her opinion of you is. If you want to save face, you can visually sigh and pretend you are glad, but either way, there is no way to turn this one around, so just count your lucky starts you don't have to waste time with this one and get to move onto the next one.
 
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