"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Vegas casinos hire ex gambling cheats to consult with their security staff.
FBI behavior science specialists (ressler, douglas, hinman, etc) interview serial criminals in prison.
Police use confidential gang informants to infiltrate the gangs, and report back.
etc etc.

Learning about the "target" group, from members of the same target group, is a proven way to learn more about the nature and thought process of such target(s). She's cool. She's a kick-ass chick.
Why not get her intelligence opinions?

What does it hurt? What can you lose?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Sosuave.com secrets of meeting, dating and attracting women

Why not just open up this forum to women and make it a general relationship advice forum?

For ****'s sakes this forum has become diluted enough without people actively encouraging women to post. I don't understand the argument that those who have commented that OP shouldn't be posting here are 'pitiful woman haters'. If you turned up to a girl's beach volleyball game, put on the little bikini and then tried to join one of the teams, would the girls be called 'man-haters' for calling the police?
 

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Well, unfortunately men are becoming more and more femminized, as they have grown up being educated by modern women. Hence the "toxic shame" they feel about being a man. They then find themselves championing women's causes on a subtle level. There's more and more of that going on around here as the DJ members from the golden years have moved on and the new breed of young semi-femminists move in. They will continue to feel their shame and hence feel compelled to stick up for women (who in their view can't handle their own battles). Their favorite simplistic "battle cry"? Woman hater! Sad, but all too true.
 

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todays_news said:
And what would be the advantage of a harsh response, over general advice?

More to the point, what is the point of your post brah?

Even more acutely to the point, why did you feel the need to even post if thats your view?

Some straight up women haters in here, its so pitiful and sad to see...
I agree there are some woman haters in here. See that is the difference between us. But a white knight afc cant afford to admit that's exactly what he's doing when he goes out of his way to apologize for other men's behavior instead of treating everyone like adults and letting them be offended or defend themselves as necessary. That's the lil bit of bytchassedness that leaks out and exposes the white knight savaho afcs.
 

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Cinamon's thread starter post was a rambling, adolescent collection of poorly worded comments, peppered with the usual feminine 'poor little me' statements.
Her post was almost incoherent- it resembled that of a ditzy teenager who had broken into her dad's liquor cabinet.

She is 31 years old for pete' sake.At that age she is expected to do better .

Secondly, this is a men's forum.

Thirdly, I suspect (based on her comments about women's baitchy nature) that she seeks male advice here because there are enough of you chumps here who will give her the sympathy that she wanted. Some of you delivered exactly that - and then you fawned and stroked her ego further by commenting about her hotness.

A lot of you have made NO progress.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I was speaking of Cin, and not opening it up to MANY women. Just a few who contribute valuable info on a consistent basis. I am not offended by it.
 

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I didnt joing this forum for such petty discussion. She posted a thread, people replied, its simple. The fvck is the problem with that.

JoPhil28 despite your rep, you're clearly the bitterest of the bunch looking at your bio and strap line. And yes I have made progress, ask the improved number of women I've slept with since I joined four months ago. I learn quickly, and theres a lot more to learn. However, I'll never be bitter towards women, so I guess I wont learn much from you. In a few months I hope to start up a wordpress, as a journal. I'll give you the address, and then we'll see what you're saying about progress.

Jeeze.
 

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todays_news said:
I didnt joing this forum for such petty discussion. She posted a thread, people replied, its simple. The fvck is the problem with that.

JoPhil28 despite your rep, you're clearly the bitterest of the bunch looking at your bio and strap line. And yes I have made progress, ask the improved number of women I've slept with since I joined four months ago. I learn quickly, and theres a lot more to learn. However, I'll never be bitter towards women, so I guess I wont learn much from you. In a few months I hope to start up a wordpress, as a journal. I'll give you the address, and then we'll see what you're saying about progress.

Jeeze.
LOL. "I didn't join for petty discussion".... *proceeds with petty discussion including personal attacks* hahahahahahahhahahaha.
 
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