We broke up but I can't go NC just yet...

[Fireballs]

Why the fvck do you want a post wall single mum who dumped you ? This thread is pretty sad..

 

[Designer Man]

Why the fvck do you want a post wall single mum who dumped you ? This thread is pretty sad..

Because she's amazing, beautiful and I'm extremely attracted to her.

I'm not into the Instagram generation who like to post photos of their backside.

My ex doesn't even like having a picture taken but I don't know why. She drives me wild.

 

[Designer Man]

You're inexperienced and naive unfortunately

Inexperienced? This is my third relationship in 14 years and one of them lasted about 10.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Because she's amazing, beautiful and I'm extremely attracted to her.

I'm not into the Instagram generation who like to post photos of their backside.

My ex doesn't even like having a picture taken but I don't know why. She drives me wild.

Stop being a cvck. No one on this website should continue to SUBMIT to a females physical image. They manipulate most of that. "But she's HAWT". Get that shyt outta here and go get puzzy .

 

[Designer Man]

Dude you are with a single mom 11 years older and still don't have any clue how women think during breakups

Yes I've read the break up threads on here. She's unsure of her decision and if I go no contact she may reach out. I think my best option is to be pleasant and kind when we go away and maybe something can resurface.

I won't contact her until I see her when I arrive.

 

[Designer Man]

Stop being a cvck. No one on this website should continue to SUBMIT to a females physical image. They manipulate most of that. "But she's HAWT". Get that shyt outta here and go get puzzy .

She's probably a 6/10 because of her age but she's exactly what I want. Been mad about her for the last 2 years and it turned her off ha

 

[Designer Man]

You only processed this new info at a very superficial level. You take baby dosages, just enough to give you hope but not enough to confront the cruel realty of life.

Anxiety, rejection, and competition anxiety rekindle attraction, not politeness.

I gave you the blueprint to both move on and maybe get get back, but you are too weak to learn. Its always been the bittersweet irony of the game that the only way to get anyone back is to move on.

This is ok, we all learned the hard way. She is going to break you down until you are humbled, that's what it takes.

Maybe that kind of stuff works but she's in her forties and is not afraid of being on her own.

Let's see how the next 2 weeks go of no contact. If she reaches out then something must still be there, if she doesn't she's probably moved on.

 

[Designer Man]

You already said she only liked you when you were emotionally unavailable lol

Regardless yes you should stay no contact

She just text me now. Unbelievable

 

[Von]

She just text me now. Unbelievable

You have ONEITIS.

She wants validation and likely go on the Vacation without giving you the Sex.

She's 41 years old with a Kid... She knows she won't have much options once you are gone.... She prefer a consolation price (you) than having ''nothing''.

If you aren't with her.... than go with a younger chick.

If you want her back.... better restart your relationship before the vacation (sex with her before vacations and good terms again... hopefully 1-2weeks before vacations).

My advice : You need help.... you need to move on... go have fun without her.

 

[Glassguy]

I think my best option is to be pleasant and kind

You do that. You seem like a real nice guy. If everything is going well during this 14 day vacation after she just dumped you, I would suggest writing her a poem from the heart and proposing to her.

I am sure that you can pull it off. Good luck.

There are some really good feminine forums that you should google search and check out, as I am positive they can give you the validation you seek as well as teach you have to chase a woman until your legs fall off.

 

[MrJack]

I'm not gonna try to meet other women because it wouldn't be fair on her and I don't feel like doing that.

I don’t know anything about your situation, as I haven’t seen your previous posts but...

It wouldn’t be fair to her? Dude she’s talking to other guys no doubt. She doesn’t give a shyt what may or may not be fair to you. Once you split up it’s over. Done. I’ve learned this the hard way a COUPLE times.

I know you must feel like shyt right now but the only way to feel better is to talk to other women and fvck them. It’ll be laughable once you do that and realize you don’t give NEARLY as much of a shyt about her as you once did.

Rock your badazz new clothes somewhere that you can meet new women. I know this is kind of the standard advice right? “Just go fvck other women brooo, come on.” But I think it’s the advice you should follow here.

All the best.

 

[Designer Man]

Spoke to her on the phone and she is under a lot of stress. She is struggling financially and won't tell me what's going on. She keeps third to herself and doesn't open up very well. She basically has no money and it's getting her down. She is very independent and wants no support from anyone. I haven't offered or will offer her money, it's not my issue. She has to do this herself and she would never ask for money or try to get money out of me. She is very hard working and works two jobs.

I hate seeing her like this.

 

[Designer Man]

I don’t know anything about your situation, as I haven’t seen your previous posts but...

It wouldn’t be fair to her? Dude she’s talking to other guys no doubt. She doesn’t give a shyt what may or may not be fair to you. Once you split up it’s over. Done. I’ve learned this the hard way a COUPLE times.

I know you must feel like shyt right now but the only way to feel better is to talk to other women and fvck them. It’ll be laughable once you do that and realize you don’t give NEARLY as much of a shyt about her as you once did.

Rock your badazz new clothes somewhere that you can meet new women. I know this is kind of the standard advice right? “Just go fvck other women brooo, come on.” But I think it’s the advice you should follow here.

All the best.

Thanks but she isn't seeing anyone else. If she was then he would probably be old ha. I'm a good looking manif I say so myself and we can't help who we fall in love with. I've got good hair, still got a straight hair line. 13 stone 10 at 15% bf, have a good career, look after myself, I'm intelligent with a good sense of humour. My downfall? I've had a tough life and my thoughts get the better of me. I have low self esteem and I don't know why but my friends say I'm a solid 8 and I find zeros attractive.

 

[MrJack]

Thanks but she isn't seeing anyone else. If she was then he would probably be old ha. I'm a good looking manif I say so myself and we can't help who we fall in love with. I've got good hair, still got a straight hair line. 13 stone 10 at 15% bf, have a good career, look after myself, I'm intelligent with a good sense of humour. My downfall? I've had a tough life and my thoughts get the better of me. I have low self esteem and I don't know why but my friends say I'm a solid 8 and I find zeros attractive.

Your problem is your mindset then. You gotta simply fix it. Tailor it to the redpill. Easier said than done but you have to do it

 

[Glassguy]

Spoke to her on the phone and she is under a lot of stress. She is struggling financially and won't tell me what's going on. She keeps third to herself and doesn't open up very well. She basically has no money and it's getting her down. She is very independent and wants no support from anyone. I haven't offered or will offer her money, it's not my issue. She has to do this herself and she would never ask for money or try to get money out of me. She is very hard working and works two jobs.

I hate seeing her like this.

Then dont. Its your choice.
And you just listed a bunch of more reasons why I would kick some chick to the curb, it would never get to the point of her being able to dump me because women like her are for pump and dumps only.

 

[Designer Man]

Then dont. Its your choice.
And you just listed a bunch of more reasons why I would kick some chick to the curb, it would never get to the point of her being able to dump me because women like her are for pump and dumps only.

Her issues won't become mine but she isn't in a good frame of mind at the moment. Couples support each other through thick and thin.

Can I ask why you wouldn't get involved? Would you see her as low quality?

She works hard and has a good job. It's hard trying to run a household and raise a child single handledly on your own in these economic times.

 

[Alvafe]

Her issues won't become mine but she isn't in a good frame of mind at the moment. Couples support each other through thick and thin.

Can I ask why you wouldn't get involved? Would you see her as low quality?

She works hard and has a good job. It's hard trying to run a household and raise a child single handledly on your own in these economic times.

couples don't end things when one of then are in bad place, or stressed, they only do so if stress is comming from the partiner, so they want to get free, but then see she can't do better and want to keep you close as a safe net, congratulation dude, you are her wallet.

you have 3 things to choose who you can salvage some of your balls, becasue lets get real here, you are a fool asking for answer and ignoring then

you don't go

you buy her part and go with someone else or alone and have fun (if she is struggling with money that is a nice way to get free from her)

sell her your part

anything diferent from these will not help you, will only benefit her, and you will feel even more a idiot then you feel now

 

[soulforge]

Spoke to her on the phone and she is under a lot of stress. She is struggling financially and won't tell me what's going on. She keeps third to herself and doesn't open up very well. She basically has no money and it's getting her down. She is very independent and wants no support from anyone. I haven't offered or will offer her money, it's not my issue. She has to do this herself and she would never ask for money or try to get money out of me. She is very hard working and works two jobs.

I hate seeing her like this.

I just spent the last ten minutes sobbing hystericaly after reading this post of yours Bruv! Sooo sad!

Are you fukin crazy? Couples come together to support each other during hard times.. they do not DUMP you!

Is this the kind of woman you want, who will discard you, when things get a little tough.

I could never imagine spending 14 days, with a chick on a holiday, after she had just dumped me..

Why? Because I have this thing called Self Respect & dignity!

Girl rejects me.. I just move the fuk on to bigger and better things!

It sounds like she has lost attraction for you, because of your NEEDY behaviour.

You talk about her like she is the best thing EVER.. You have added Soooooo much value to her, and quite simply demoted yourself.

Do you really think you can get her feeling HOT for you again within 14 days, simply by acting a little aloof around her.

Personally I would take the financial loss of this holiday.. Go NC and focus on recovery, improvement and killing the inner BETA in you.. YOU sound weak Bruv!

If she still has any feelings for you, then she will come back.. But your chances INCREASE due to NC..

Chasing her like a thirsty dog, will only BACKFIRE on you!

 

[dustmuffin]

She's the lead passenger on the booking, she is 100% going as am I.

My questions aren't whether should I go or not, my questions are how to behave when I'm around her. We are sharing and sleeping in the same room. Do I act like we are still together?

If you go you will end up acting like a needy ***** and make an ass of yourself. Book another separate room.

 

[Red Legg]

Spin plates already....Geeeezus.