"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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We Are Scientists

Mission

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Hey guys,

Alright so we have all been through our selected science classes in school for the past X amount of years. All of us have also at some point done an experiment in class to test something you are learning.

Well the whole idea of an experiment is to ELIMINATE POSSIBILITIES THAT DO NOT WORK! Lets say you are trying to design a compass, well as you know the needle has to be magnetized and it has to be on a surface that allows it to move freely. However if you had no knowledge of this and were given only a few materials and told to get the needle to point North with out moving it yourself you would obviously have to try many things to figure out how to get this phenomenon to occur.

The same applies to women. You cannot go out there and expect your method to work perfectly the first time, or work at all, it is an experimenting process. You have to go out and figure out what DOESN'T work, because then you will know to NEVER do that. Eventually you will be very knowledgable and it will become more rare that you make errors with women.

Get out there and try everything, find your own niche, if you fail it is a good thing, now improve and try again.

--Mission
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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CrystalGem

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Mission said:
and it will become more rare that you make errors with women.

--Mission
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It is impossible to any errors 'with women' if you are a true man. Live your own life and worry about things that have to do with you, not women. Women come and go. If you think you've made an error, slap yourself. Better yet, have a friend beat you to a pulp. You'll feel better after, because you'll realize believing you can make mistakes with women is a lifestyle of a feminized man. You can not make mistakes, you can only grow as a man.
 

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CrystalGem said:
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It is impossible to any errors 'with women' if you are a true man. Live your own life and worry about things that have to do with you, not women. Women come and go. If you think you've made an error, slap yourself. Better yet, have a friend beat you to a pulp. You'll feel better after, because you'll realize believing you can make mistakes with women is a lifestyle of a feminized man. You can not make mistakes, you can only grow as a man.
There is some truth, but if you always think that you are NEVER making mistakes, then how will you ever learn from them. I think oppositley, if you are a true man you have the strength to recognize your faults and mistakes, learn from them, and become a better man.

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Mission said:
Well the whole idea of an experiment is to ELIMINATE POSSIBILITIES THAT DO NOT WORK!

--Mission
I don't think that is right. If I said you were wrong, how would you feel?

It has been said that everything works, you just have to find out how. Of course your not going to be able to turn iron into gold. You can't fit a circle into a square, unless the circle is small enough. There are things that seem not to work at first.

Being an AFC is bad, but as a DJ, I can fall back into everything I did as an AFC and do good. So why is being an AFC so good if I can make it work?
 
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