"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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We are just pawns to the laws of nature

That_Guy49

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So why must we live according to utopian theories? I notice that you guys say be men of action. Well for me to be a man of action would be to decieve myself into doing something out of spite. I have a consciousness and I ask, why act? Like, getting laid. People think that using techniques will get them laid while others talk about attraction must be natural, so then you're contradicting each other and proving that the law of nature is supposed to take care of such things. I find myself overwhelmed by inertia and expansive boredem. I think we should all just act upon desire rather than reason.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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We need more guys like you on this forum That_Guy.......
 

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Feeling a little depressed? Find what works for YOU, its not about what anyone else says. If you disagree with what some people say here, then so be it, youll be good.
 

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I think we should all just act upon desire rather than reason.

We all DO act on desire/emotion and then pad our decision with reasion/logic/rational-lies. Ever notice how anything built on reason can be dismantled...but anything NOT born of reason cannot be dismantled?


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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Um, well technically, everything we do is based on emotion. There's not a single thing we ever do that isn't emotional.
 
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