"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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We are becoming good at writing here!!!

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Very interesting point. It has been brought up a lot of times in different ways, but never as clearly as this. I have yet to find a serious activity at which one can get good by only reading the manual.
 

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DOOOD!! YOU JUST DON'T GET IT MAN! THE INNER ESSENCE OF THE DJ IS NOT ABOUT GETTING GIRLS! rEAD THE BIBLE!!!!!!!!111one

Someones been watching Cheech and Chong waaaaaay to much.:p
 

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Originally posted by Interpol
DOOOD!! YOU JUST DON'T GET IT MAN! THE INNER ESSENCE OF THE DJ IS NOT ABOUT GETTING GIRLS! rEAD THE BIBLE!!!!!!!!111one

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yes, but the don juan discussion forum IS for getting girls [/sarcasm]
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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i think my writing is poor..
but i do go pretty well with the girls :)

i need to get some field reports going but i'm always drunk when i pick up girls..
 
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