"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
We Are All Just Junkies Chasing a High
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I saw all these posts of how that was AFC and unfortunately for awhile there, I thought what I was experiencing was unnatural. That it was only me. That other guys didn't get these feelings too. It's important to know that it is something you just have to learn to handle and work through, that it's not "unnatural" (you're a part of nature and it's happening so it's natural) but it's not necessary either.
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not instantly. but there was that incident of the physo that tried to kill me by throwing my own damn glass vase at my head last year when I tried to break it off. that suckedBible_Belt said:
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