"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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We are ALL in this together. But fellow DJ's calls for help are NOT being answered!!!

HOT_CHILLI

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In this forum i go through and i see a lot of zeros. Zero replies.
People go in and start a thread to ask a question or seek advice and it gets no replies.
No replies yet it gets at least 10 views.

I think this is unacceptable. We are all in this together. People seek help, help is recieved, lesson accepted, lesson applied, lesson reported, lesson taught.

That is the way it should be. When you teach somebody something, it is re-enforced within your own mind and becomes engraved into your brain.
For someone to teach, they first must learn, but how are they to learn the way of the DJ if they are given no help to overcome problems which arise which in effect, stops them from learning.

This is not to say that a DJ is to seek help from others everytime he is faced with the slightest difficulty, as a DJ must learn to trust his own judgement in time.

But if you are going to use and benefit from knowledge on this forum, one would hope that you would Give a little, Take a little.

Every time you ask a question or request advice and your thread gets replies from people who offer advice and answers, find a comrade in need a offer some constructive help.

You will learn ideas and methods better yourself after teaching them and the comrade you help will be assisted in breaking through obstacles that stand in their way of a fantastic life.

May the force be with you, the force of pure Man.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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SharinganUser

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Alot of questions don't get answered because they are either not good enough questions (such as "I called 4 days later did I completely blow it?) OR they are posted by knot heads that aren't going to listen anyway, such as CC08, ElStud, ect...
 

KontrollerX

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Sharinganuser said it.

Plus most questions can be answered by simply reading the DJ Bible which most new posters don't want to take the time to do but will be forced to do if we don't answer their questions.

Which may be a better thing for them in the long run anyway. :yes:
 

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I agree with the previous posters. The majority of questions presented can be answered by the DJ Bible,or by old threads in the archives. There are a LOT of times where I'll see a thread started with a question or situation where I'll know the answer to it,and I won't respond either because I already know the poster won't listen (CC08),or the question will seem so simple that I can't believe that it's being asked.

Another thing to take into account is the 10 post limit. We only have 10 posts to use each day,so personally,I pick and choose which topics I want to reply to. If we had an unlimited number of posts to use,then maybe every thread started would receive at least one reply.
 
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