"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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We all want to live a fufilling life, but how?

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Konada said:
I came across this article which is quite a interesting read IMO, it shows us insight into what people regret most about their lives. I believe we can learn a thing or two from this article, and possibly keep a track of what life is really about when we get lost in the rat race.

http://sg.yahoo.matchmovegames.com/news/article/5-regrets-people-have-on-their-deathbeds
You opened my eyes, Konada. I'm resigning my job today and am going to live off interest income, and sarge fulltime.
 

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This garbage was written by some pvssy who has no will to excel in life. It's all about the balance. Put your work in, put your play in, put your rest in. Everything is great in moderation. Where do you think the 8 hour work day came from? 1/3 of the 24 hour day. 8 hours rest, 8 hours play.

Live to the fullest and don't let haters hold you back. Happiness isn't achieved through materialism, no doubt. These type articles aim to make rationalizations for unhappy fvcks with no will power, no drive to be who they want to be.
 

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Get to know yourself, know what makes you happy, and do it responsibly. Just don't be a sheep without a brain and do what friends/family/society tells you. If it makes you happy and conforms to what others tell you, then great. If it doesn't, do it your way in a responsible way and fuk what others think.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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speed dawg said:
This garbage was written by some pvssy who has no will to excel in life. It's all about the balance. Put your work in, put your play in, put your rest in. Everything is great in moderation. Where do you think the 8 hour work day came from? 1/3 of the 24 hour day. 8 hours rest, 8 hours play.
Very very very well said.

Happiness is all about balance IMO also. Of course, try to do something you enjoy for work and excel at it to the best of your ability. Try to learn how to rest as well as you can and find what you love doing for your play time and do it!
 

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fulfilling life. Decide wtf you want to do, fcking do it. Grass may be greener on the other side. Doesn't matter, do what you set out to do. It will be the hardest thing you've ever done.


All that stuff aside, I'm morally fcked.
Got a gf, but i slept with another girl. I was raised a Christian and I believe God exists. That aside, sex feels great. So many conflicting emotions.
 

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When you stop asking how and start living, that's when life becomes fulfilling. No amount of happy will bring you happiness, because after a while of being happy it becomes boring - unless you on drugs, but even then, your brain becomes accustomed to drugs and it becomes boring. Happiness is the experience of the full spectrum of life, the bad, and the good, and everything in between.
 

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speed dawg said:
This garbage was written by some pvssy who has no will to excel in life. It's all about the balance. Put your work in, put your play in, put your rest in. Everything is great in moderation. Where do you think the 8 hour work day came from? 1/3 of the 24 hour day. 8 hours rest, 8 hours play.
Agree but you must be careful because people will get into a lifestyle where they have +1 hour compulsory workbreak, +1.5 hours travelling to/from work, +0.5 hours grooming +1hours cooking/eating, then there's only 4 hours left and it's already dark. Then it's late evening and you feel tired and drained, so you watch TV and spank to youporn.

It's easy to fall into this and WHAM you waste your youth away.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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