"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

We all know the answer, we're just oblivious

Rint

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Aug 26, 2005
Messages
323
Reaction score
1
Location
Florida
I remember when i went through all the post i could find that people said were good post or bumped them, and i was hoping i would read one that would turn me into a DJ right after i finished reading it, but do you know what i found? I found that i already knew all these stuff, and how i was thinking how dumb this was, that their already telling me something I know. So we all know the answer we're just all human and we're just to damn lazy to pull it out of our skulls and apply it to our lives. The one who are willing to put up with the pain of effort for any amount of time are the ones who are going to become Don Juans, but if you want my advice on becoming a Don Juan that you all know, but are so oblivious that you wont figure this out, but you must figure out your faults and fix them before you can improve anything else.

What is DJ?:
-DJ as you all know is a state of mind and the mind is the hardest thing to change especially by will. I know this, because i tried a whole year to become a DJ and failed cause i took it the wrong way and i just went to China and trained at a temple to learn martial arts and survived and hardship and became a better person.
-Its how you view the world I dont mean how you see the world, but how you respond to everything a DJ is judged by his actions and his actions are what makes people especially women fall in love with him.
-A DJ is popular and loved by everyone, because he makes people feel good and thats why they like being around him or he has a trait that is unique or one that towers above others such as humor

How can you become a DJ?:
-You all know the answer the first step is to know whats wrong with you and accepting you have a problem or why your flawed
-Do it for yourself only not to get laid or get with girls do it cause you want to do it to make YOUR life better.
-Dont do something you read or heard from others that you dont think will work for you keep your morals and integrity thats what makes each DJ diffrent and that is the only thing that dousn't affect you becoming a DJ

Quotes that helped me:
-Nothing worth having comes easy
-Hard work can buy anything -by me
-kaizen= constant improvement

Thats my 2 cents. What do you guys thing?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Bvbidd

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 16, 2006
Messages
1,482
Reaction score
8
Nothing wrong with hard work, but there is a bunch of stuff against that ideal too.. kinda making both of them obsolete as any kind of real wisdom.

Such as the harder you try for something the less attainable it becomes. You know what I mean?

lol just gettin on your case about the hard work quotes. zen can work too.

I mean if we knew all the answers then why would it be such hard work?

As for the rest of the post, good sh!t. :crazy:
 
Top