Ways to show a girl in class interest

[andrew57]

I need help I am new here and I am an afc, but working on it.
There is the nice hb7 in my class of 125 people. She is usually sitting by a friend and about 5 or 6 rows in front of me. I really would like to show interest in her, but like I said I am an afc. What would be some good ways to start showing interest in her? Should I just go up to her and introduce myself or what? Please help, I really want to meet her.

 

[DJZ]

Just walk in class like you are the man and go sit down by her. Strike up a convo about something pertaining to the class, and then hopefully you can move on to establish some rapport. It's so easy to start a little kino in class, b/c the seats in those types of classes are so close together.

I'm not a master DJ, take my advice lightly

 

[Beige]

When you'll happen to stand near her:
"I don't know you, what's your name?"
or just come to her, ignore everyone else and say:
"You brought my attention and I don't know who you are, that irritates me, what's your name?"
"xxx"
"Oh, and your friends are.." (then greet all her friends)

Above is my way of approaching, it is great because when you pull it out it just has to be dynamic and confident and initiates a dynamic, unusual convo. You go there, begin like this, then say some other weird things depending on circumstances, split your attention equally to all people involved and disappear before it gets boring.

Let the next approaches come naturally, don't rush them too much. After two, three or four #close and set up a date.

The crucial thing is - you have to #close her in the first few approaches, before you two get to really know each other. The better you know her, the harder is to set up a date and rejection hurts more.


You may try the DJZ approach too but most propably it will make you look like just another chump with nothing interesting to say and you don't want that. I've been there, tried it, trust me.

 

[RandomGuy]

I find it more effective to ask a question or make a comment pertaining to the class before introducing urself. This way, it will be more natural. If its more natural, it wont seem like a pickup, so she wont have her ***** sheild up.

Something like: "how are you doing in this class?" wprks fine
and steer toward fluff talk and build rapport.
It also helps to talk to other girls around her too.

and remember its usually not what you say, but how you say it and the body language that you portray is of utmost important!

 

[Don Corleon]

What i always like to do is turn around and ask when a certain paper is due or what a certain test is about. Then i usually say something like i usually get together with one or two other people to study or go over answers,you interested in getting together with us? Then number close, call later in the week and start off talkin about class, setup the date.