Ways to open

[djweses89]

Yea, the past few weeks I have found myself in a delima. My problem is having opener to someone I've never meet before in a random place. For example I go to the coffee shop one day and theres an very good looking girl about my age running the cash register, I have troubles finding a way to open a convo with her where she isn't saying things to me like your caramel frap. is gunna be $5.37, I don't have troubles talking to good looking women anymore, I'm pretty damn confident in myself at lease most days, but im just stuck on this issue. It's not just women thats at cash registers ether it's also women that I may see in the mall, I wouldn't mind approaching some random pretty girl but I'm not sure what to say to a random stranger to get there attention and for them to be interested in what im saying without them being freaked out by my random approach. So if anyone has good openers help me out I'm sure this has been posted before or is somewhere on this site, but I hope some of you will be willing to help.

 

[Punisha]

i got the same problem sometimes but its quite easy...just say something familiar. e.g: she is taking her jacket off just say isent it hot here?or something like that...easy 2 start then just do your job =)

 

[Snow Plowman]

Opener is just to start conversation...what you say is really irrelevant because once you say something you have already opened.

What some openers
- Hi
- Ruff Ruff
- Do you like lemons
- I think your cute, my name is xxx
- Hey can...you tell me...how to get too...seasame ST!
- Which is better MTV or MTV2

You get my drift, it really doesn't matter what you open with because your going in super hard and already passed the opener in less than 30seconds. She is most likely going to be hooked rather quickly too.

So at the end of the day the opener is Irrelevant, just say something.

 

[SinJester]

"Hi, how are you going?"

Do you really need any more openers. Just try to relate to how she is feeling at the time and bring that into the conversation.

 

[Lust]

It's all about having an attractive, fun vibe.

Social proof plays a huge part, and so does inner confidence.

I've seen guys open tremendously well with "I like salad".

 

[miniPIMPIN]

u dont need an opener. just say what comes to mind. if u waste too much time worrying about what to say, say goodbye to that opportunity.