Yea, the past few weeks I have found myself in a delima. My problem is having opener to someone I've never meet before in a random place. For example I go to the coffee shop one day and theres an very good looking girl about my age running the cash register, I have troubles finding a way to open a convo with her where she isn't saying things to me like your caramel frap. is gunna be $5.37, I don't have troubles talking to good looking women anymore, I'm pretty damn confident in myself at lease most days, but im just stuck on this issue. It's not just women thats at cash registers ether it's also women that I may see in the mall, I wouldn't mind approaching some random pretty girl but I'm not sure what to say to a random stranger to get there attention and for them to be interested in what im saying without them being freaked out by my random approach. So if anyone has good openers help me out I'm sure this has been posted before or is somewhere on this site, but I hope some of you will be willing to help.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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