“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Don Juan
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God, you could wear the most out this solar system clothes and still get the job done. it all comes down to the confidence.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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GRAH! I know, it all comes down to confidence, we've all read the Dirty Arab Club PU @ fs.com but this isn't about my low self esteem or anything, this is about finding clothes that represent who I am and will be most comfortable in. I can go up and hit on chicks wearing preppy clothes or skater clothes or whatever (done it before), but I would feel a lot more comfortable if my clothes were congruent with my attitude and personality.
 

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I do but I'm not gonna go spend 5 hours shopping lookin for the right clothes. I have better things to do with my time. When I go shopping I wanna know what I want, what my budget is, where I'm gonna go, and how long it's gonna take. I've gone shopping for extended periods before (I think 3-4 hours was the longest) and I hated it. I'd much rather know what I want beforehand. I mean, it's nice to go out and find stuff that you like but weren't planning on purchasing, but to go out with the intent of buying "something that looks good on me but I'm not sure what I'm looking for or where I can find it" isn't really appealing to me.
 
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